Man one time we tries to watch a movie w snoop dog and wiz khalifa w my fam that shit was wild bru
A relationship should not drain you.
A relationship should be about building each other up, together as a team.
Don’t be in a relationship if it doesn’t improve your life over being single.
it’s ok to be with yourself.
Read this. And then read it again.
ambitchiousjuvenile
applies to friendships too
The Gemini sadness is accurate as fuck
Zodiac Expressions of Sadness
♈ Aries: Rage, impulsivity and failure to get worked up about the things they normally do, oppositional but with less verve and energy
♉ Taurus: Isolation, binge eating and lethargy, a sense of 'me against the world', less patience, easier to enrage
♊ Gemini: Silence, nerves, over thinking, easily distractible and seems 'elsewhere'; they are fairly intolerable to sadness they tend to detach/dissociate from feelings after a short while
♋ Cancer: Teariness, neediness, isolation, binge eating, crying after insignificant events, stomach aches, a feeling of separation from everyone around them
♌ Leo: Obvious displays of stress, they become like a wound up string and as if they are on the brink of a nervous break down. Short tempered and needy (only around close friends/family) and become martyred
♍ Virgo: Isolation, heightened compulsions (cleaning, washing hands more etc;), unresponsive in conversations, at time blunt and more oppositional
♎ Libra: General feeling of instability/moodiness, reduced urge to socialize/be with friends, hopelessness, a feeling of being disliked/rejected by everyone, you can sense them 'trying' to be happy and keep composed
♏ Scorpio: Isolation, opposition, hostility and violent mood swings. Intense melancholy with at times delusions and paranoia. Thoughts even scary to them, a sense of 'me against the world'.
♐ Sagittarius: Lethargy, escapism (substance use etc;), uncharacteristically more serious and tense, less tolerance, feelings of worry when thinking into the future
♑ Capricorn: Demotivation, lethargy, hopelessness, over thinking, they seem tense and 'overly alert', hyper vigilant, force themselves to 'go through the motions', nothing impresses them
♒ Aquarius: Uneasy, harder to 'reach'; as if they are far away. Silence, isolation, detachment, even though they try to appear happy. Distractible
♓ Pisces: Teariness, anxiety, isolation, when they feel sadness they tend to feel 'all at once', nerves, obsessive/ruminating thinking, remembering everything bad that ever happened to them, crying over insignificant events
if u r girl and game competitively: 1. Constant misogyny 2. Boys & men who are tryna fuck and too old for you // Play nice guy friend 3. More misogyny if u refused to fuck 4. Rumors rumors rumors 5. Every conversation will lead to sex 6. More misogyny if u complain 7. "Your fat and ugly" 8. Condescension on the regular 9. Invisibility and visibility but only when least beneficial to you
modernelf-deactivated20190514
I don’t understand how in movies when there’s some scene about someone sitting on the bus and thinking about life they just have their head rested against the window and it looks so calming and shit like no have you ever put your head against a window while the bus is moving it feels like your cranium is a blender and your brain is becoming a smoothie
low key tired of people advocating for a humanity that oppressive Like how come when we fight for ppl's "humanity", we're not fighting for humanity we're fighting for masculinity. We're fighting for the right to be above someone else. The gender struggle is inextricably linked with the race struggle and capitalism, but most importantly I do not think we will get any of them w.o. getting all of them and this is where things become tricky bc it's not about intersectionality, at least not at all in the way ppl use intersectionality.
fairylightsandcozynights
oh god
dragonofenergie
"Why do you flinch so hard?"
Maybe there was a time when someone wasn’t kidding when they swung at me.
feathered-dragoness
yup. right up there with “why do you get so panicky when people raise their voice?”
This.
A woman who says “No thanks, I’ll sleep on the floor”; a woman who freezes up and tenses at your touch; a woman who says “I really don’t want to” and “We really shouldn’t” and “We can’t” and “Please at least wear a condom” is not saying yes to you, and if you would like to pretend that that is unclear, you are a liar, you are being disingenuous, you are lying and you know it.
Mallory Ortberg, "What counts?" (via tiredestprincess)
City of God (2002)
OH MY GOD
beyonslayed
STOP
somethottythatyouusedtoknow-blog reblogged
Also like one of my abusers had everyone defending him saying it wasn’t his fault because he’s mentally ill, and everyone felt sorry for him, but no one even cared about my mental illness, and it was actually used against me. So no I don’t want to talk about having psychosis, or depression or...
dgaider bruh Solas got me fucked whoever wrote that got me fucked up I ain't even experience heartbreak irl but dude my heart broke and continues to break from that damn romance I'm out here wondering why my char aka me ain't enough I need closure. I might need to go talk to my therapist about this shit like Like why y'all rock my shit like that cold af
England: colour America: color England: humour America: humor England: flavour America: flavor England: what are you doing America: getting rid of u lmao