stop worrying if you are showing people the “real you”, or worrying that you behave differently around different people
there is no one true self, every person is all at once selfish and generous, brave and cowardly, stoic and emotional, outgoing and reclusive… we respond differently in different situations as a matter of survival, we contain all potentialities within us, it is only the external world that determines which side of your infinitely faceted existence is required
do not attempt to force an inorganic version of an idealized personality into all parts of your life, instead seek out those people and situations which organically bring out the qualities in yourself which you most admire and desire to show
