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Advice for all your queer needs

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Hey lovey humans! We are here to help you and give you advice on anything Lgbtq+
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je-viens-dailleurs asked:

Hi :) i have a woman body but i feel like a boy (50%) and a girl(50%). I'm only attracted by women. I don't know how to define myself, am I bispirituel, gender fluide ? Thank you :)

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No one can define your gender but you!

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thenakedpostmen
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tiger-in-the-flightdeck

My baby brother’s first girlfriend recently confessed to thinking they were actually a boy. I asked my brother if this bothered him. His response was:

"Well, yeah. If I had have known they were a boy when we were going out, I would have said I had a boyfriend, not a girlfriend."

He was ten.

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Anonymous asked:

is this a side blog? do you have a main blog?

I have a personal blog. But this by no means is a side blog. It’s just a different one.-Grenade

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Anonymous asked:

i know what genderfluid is. sorry if my question was confusing. like, if your gender is in your brain, like wouldnt it be formed at birth, not when youre a toddler? and its not about society i know but like a lot of educated people talk about how its a social construct idk. like i know you dont have to fit into gender roles to be a certain gender, do they just mean gender roles are a social construct? idk sorry if you dont wanna answer that you dont have to!

Exactly it is formed at birth. but I mean technically how are you gonna know? you don't even know what ur foot is. but we don't find out our true gender (if non cis) mainly until later in our lives because society has shoved us so far into our gender assigned at birth. society is just one big confusing hypocrite lmfao I try not to care to much tbh. hope it helped if not please feel free to ask again.-Grenade 

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Anonymous asked:

if gender is in your brain, how is it a social construct and not developed until youre a toddler? also, how can it be fluid? im confused

Well, exactly. it's in your brain its how you identify. and genderfluid is you don't feel female 100% of the time or male 100% off the time and sometimes u feel as if you're both or neither, and I feel better just to leave society out of it.

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rose-colored-jo

So let me tell you about the shittiest parent on the motherfucking planet.

I work at a grocery store and this man comes in with his 11 year old son. He buys a pack a cigarettes and a two cases of beer. The son was holding a two dollar drawing pad and placed it on the belt and I guess the dad didn’t notice it at first but when I was about to scan the pad he asked where’d it have come from and turned towards the kid and asked “Did you put that shit up there?”. He told me to put it back and then told his 11 year old child that he “ain’t paying for that gay ass notebook.”.  So I looked at the kid, who was close to tears and saying how he ran out of paper at home and my heart broke. So I gave the pad to him, for free, and told the dad I would take care of it. I gave the kid some tokens for a game outside and said I would look forward to buying some of his drawings and paintings when he’s all famous. He kids face was so priceless and I thought everything was good. But then, about 10 ten minutes after giving the kid his notebook, I walked outside and saw this. The drawing pad all ripped up and tossed on the pavement. I could only imagine what happened in the parking lot, but I know that that poor kid heart is fucking ripped apart, just like this pad.

I’m fucking horrified that there are parents like this, who, just because it’s not masculine or gender specificthey won’t let their children follow their true passions or explore interests that lead to their happiness. Even more so, I’m horrified that parents don’t care about the fine arts anymore because it doesn’t have job security. Since when did it ever matter to a child if their passion makes them money or not? Parenting is about supporting whatever makes your child happy. Have some fucking consideration for your child’s wants not your homophobic and anti-art ideals. 

Everybody needs to see this

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clownvenom

This makes me so angry. How could anyone be so hateful. That poor kid…

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