If ur efforts aren’t being reciprocated BITCH!!!!! LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!
kubrickgood
when we talk about how people are allowed to learn from their mistakes, admit they were wrong, and grow to be a better person that 100% has to apply to older adults as well as young kids/teens.
there’s no age where it’s too late for someone to change.
there’s no age where once a person has grown past it they are no longer allowed to ever make mistakes or make up for them.
there’s no age where once a person has grown past it they are no longer to ever have any change in their beliefs.
change and growth are not things that only young people can do and they are not things that we should only support in young people. holding something some said 5, 10, 20 years ago against them when they’ve already apologized for it and moved on from it is just as fucked up if you’re doing it to someone in their 20s or someone in their 40s or older.
don’t trust anyone who thinks they’re incapable of ever being abusive
don’t trust anyone who thinks that because of some aspect of their identity (their gender, their sexuality, their age, their race, their class, whatever) it means it’s impossible for them to be abusive.
don’t trust anyone who thinks that because of the things they’ve been through in life (that they were abused themself, that they have abuse survivors as friends or family members) it’s impossible for them to be abusive.
the point of this post is not to scare y'all or to make you feel like there are predators on every corner but to make you understand that if you are ever in an abusive situation and your abuser deflects and denies that what they’re doing to you is abuse by claiming any of these things (that “how can i be abusive? i’m ___!”) that they are 100% full of shit and you should not buy what they’re telling you.
anyone of any identity and any background could potentially be an abuser and people who deny that are not people you should trust because even if they’re not an abuser themself, they’re still pushing an agenda that inherently denies the lived experiences of abuse survivors who have been abused by the people they say are incapable of it and that’s still a shit thing to do.
Sickness (C.B)(7.24.18)
Identity pride plumbbobs for the queer Sims player–set two!
Set two, containing transgender, nonbinary, androgyne, genderqueer, demiboy, aporagender, pangender, and intergender.
Set one, containing Intersex, trigender, neutrois, polygender, genderfluid, demigirl, demigender, agender, genderflux, greygender.
“Gay people aren’t interested in making other people gay but homophobes are interested in making other people homophobic”
— Stephen Fry
A reminder of what Gender IS and ISN’T
Intergender is for intersex people only
It is not “a gender between male and female” unless the intersex intergender person describes it as such
Intergender can not be separated from intersex experiences. Intergender describes our experiences with dysphoria and how it intersects with intersexism and transphobia/cissexism. Non-intersex people can’t use it. Use androgyne or non-binary something similar. Stop stealing intersex specific words.
P.S. on that same train if I catch any of you (non-intersex) nasties calling yourselves h*rmaphrodites I hope an intersex person smacks the shit out of you
[okay to reblog if you’re not intersex]
For my 8th grade final, I want to do a bit of a survey.
LIKE if you think gay marriage is wrong
REBLOG if you support gay marriage
Gonna prove a point to my homophobic ass teachers
darling, you don’t have to alter yourself to fit into your gender identity.
you don’t have to cut your hair short or dye it a funky colour.
you don’t have to wear a binder.
you don’t have to stop wearing dresses or trousers or anything.
you don’t have to feel ‘not trans enough’.
you don’t have to start wearing makeup or stop wearing makeup.
you don’t have to think in a certain way or not think in a certain way.
you don’t have to speak in a certain way or not speak in a certain way.
you don’t have to like certain things or not like certain things.
you don’t have to act in a certain way or not act in a certain way.
if you want to, that’s okay. do whatever you wish to. but if you don’t, then remember that you need not follow the gender identity stereotypes to identify as it. you make your own rules. you are not limited up to a tag. you are your own person. don’t let the mortals get you down.
Those who are in alignment with the new earth are going through a very intense dna rewriting. This is exhausting and taxing on the physical vessel. The best thing to do is just let it happen. Rest when you need to and surrender to the cosmic flow.
Be the cryptid you wish to see in the woods. I decided to give Aida-painting another go, and I’m pretty pleased with the results!