disabled people don't owe you their medical history :)
Via Paul Mescal
Special thanks to @elder-goblin for suggesting Tonight’s Mood!
I’m like if a hater enjoyed things
love "et cetera" like... theres soooo much more. beyond your wildest imaginations. Not gonna tell u what tho. Move on
People don’t owe you their downtime! And I don’t mean this in a harsh way, but in a “quit breaking your own heart” way.
It’s so easy to see a friend “active” and reblogging on tumblr, or maybe making a status update on Facebook and feel hurt they haven’t replied to our messages.
Different things take different energy. And someone being “online” but not actively talking to you does not mean they no longer love or care about you.
I love Matilda because it's a story about a child who sees injustice around her and gets mad about it and questions why things aren't fair, and instead of the ending being that she learns how the world works and that life isn't fair, she catapults one of the adults who abused her out of a building with her mind
Friendly reminder that you can sit down.
Sit in the shower.
Sit to brush your teeth or do your hair.
Sit while cooking.
Sit to do dishes.
Sit down in the middle of walking to rest if you need.
Sit down whenever! You are allowed to make things easier on yourself!
Food scarcity is a construct we need to destroy.
A solar eclipse and the Milky Way seen from the ISS
I already posted something like this, but like.
WHY DOES THIS GIF PERFECTLY REPRESENT MY MENTAL HEALTH???
Whoever decided this scene or blooper would be perfect: fuck you for calling me out. Who gave you the AUDACITY.
fucking love when I'm on a call with someone and they start to do a little errand or go somewhere else and they say "and you're coming with me" like. absolutely I am let's go on an adventure I've been spirited away
“ew thick water gross and weird” ITS NOT FUCKING FOR YOU!!!!! “ew why buy pre-cut vegetables when you can cut your own” ITS NOT FUCKING FOR YOU!!!!!! “I don’t need a device to help me put my socks on I’m not lazy” ITS NOT FUCKING FOR YOU !!!!!!!!! “Why drink liquid meals when you can cook them” ITS!!!!! NOT!!!!!! FOR!!!!!! YOU!!!!!!!!
Also, don't let the internalized ableism stop you from acquiring things that make your life easier! If you NEED those pre cut veggies, shredded cheeses, bread/cake/cookie kits get them! If you need liquid nutrition buy it! If you need a sock grabber or shoe horn or hand warmers use them! If you need mobility support of any kind, find and use them. We have to stop listening to the shame uncaring, mean-assed people have ground into us; we deserve to live too.
my official statement on this and every matter is that we all must hang out and tell our friends we love them more frequently