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Queer Wanderer

@roguevaramiy / roguevaramiy.tumblr.com

✌ He/They ⚧ Welcome to this hell of mismatched fandoms and random bursts of obsession spams
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radiobarf

Gay Bowser and Accident prone Luigi, the ship of the century.

(Really jazzed to see how the movie is looking so far)

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I go on other social media sites and am reminded everyone hates furries. There's this attractive guy on tiktok who wears a fursuit sometimes and all the comments are like "so much potential wasted..." NO actually he has reached his FULL potential

Need a man like this

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apas-95

its so fucking wild. i heard this twitch streamer telling an anecdote about going to a girl's house, really liking her, getting invited to her bedroom, and, after she said she was saving up to buy a fursuit, immediately bailed. the entire chat was going 'dodged a bullet holy shit' and. ????? it's so weird how so many people have such a visceral, angry response to furries

i feel like people who dont like furries are the same kind of people that dont like people that like anime: they don't know shit, they're just going off the collective perception of "oh this is weird" without actually thinking anything.

because 9 times out of 10 what they're afraid of is:

  • being rejected from society by accepting it
  • that small vocal minority within these communities that do too much
  • becoming part of the community themselves
  • re-adjusting their behavior as to not be hateful about it
  • having to convince their friends that its fine too

effectively its only due to reputation that isnt deserved.

re-adjusting their

behavior as to not be

hateful about it

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

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kipplekipple

I went out with 3 of my friends today. I found a place that claimed to have wheelchair accessible walks, and we went off the path, and my wheelchair got stuck a thousand times.

We laughed so hard, and they pushed me (I can't propel myself very far) and we took photos and we laughed more and we went through mud and fine sand and thistles, and then we ate croissants at a café and when we got back to the car we had ice cream and

I wish I could go back to my child self and show them this day. I wish I could say, One day you'll be part of things and people will be glad to have you around, and they won't complain about pushing you up a steep grade or through a bog, and they will want to hear your shitty jokes and when you gasp and say LOOK A BABY BUNNY they will stop to look and it will be exactly as magical as you're imagining now.

You can find a place where you're appreciated and loved and supported. You can. I believe it.

I went to a carnival with my friends the other day, and even though my shoulder was dislocated all of them were willing to push me wherever we went, and when they went on the rides I couldn't go on, I sat and took pictures of them so we could all remember the day. I bought cheesy dinosaur shirts and we all found matching cow shirts. We went through the fair and found little Lego sets that we all loved, and when I got overwhelmed all of them were willing to find a quiet spot to sit and relax in. Even when I started having a tic attack, we left very quickly and got pizza.

I really needed this post to remind me that it's easiest to feel like you're a burden when people treat you like a burden. But I promise you're not, you'll find people who want you around.

I bought a house with my partner. I am allowed to paint the walls exactly the way I want them painted, in exactly the order I want them painted. I put up the painter's tape myself and I pull it down (so satisfying). I decide if the walls need another coat or if a spot needs touching up, and I am not shamed or berated for my "pickiness". In fact, my partner walks in and says "wow, it looks amazing in here. Great job, handsome." He does not touch me when I am sweaty and sore, but waits until I have had my shower and come back to myself.

The food in our cupboards is food I will eat - or at least our cupboards contain nothing I hate and am expected to eat anyway. There is always something to snack on for when food is Bad and eating is Hard. There are no doors on the cupboards, the better to remember that food exists and can be accessed easily.

There are soft things everywhere. The lights are kept low and soon we will put up fairy lights for supplemental lighting. My sensory needs are met and respected, and I am safe.

My partner puts my walker in his car and drives me places - and does not object when I would rather be the one driving, relinquishes control as easily as breathing. He checks to make sure I am okay, that I am not pushing too hard; he believes me when I say I can or cannot do something. He slows down to keep pace when I am tired or in pain, and never, ever rushes me.

You will build a home some day, and it will be just as beautiful and safe as mine.

I now live in a place where there is no screaming or yelling. I no longer walk on eggshells by simply existing in my own home. There is no more pressure on me to sacrifice my limited energy to do more because there is no desperate need for me to escape.

The dishes are allowed to stay in the sink overnight and the world does not explode if the bathroom is not cleaned top-to-bottom weekly before Sunday evening. My roommate and partner believes me when I say I cannot do something, and I feel safe and comfortable to ask for help when I need it.

I am unlearning the involuntary hesitation of inviting people to my home, and learning that it's okay to let people in even if their time in my life is only temporary.

I never would have been able to imagine this as a teenager, or even through college. It does get better. It's worth hanging around for.

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coureirsix

LITERALLY some of you don’t fucking know what “disposable income is” like i cannot stress ENOUGH that someone who was able to get animal crossing on day 1 of launch or a ps5 preorder that is still only working minimum wage job and/or cannot pay their rent on a monthly basis is NOT your enemy bruv they are NOT “the rich” like PLEASE cement that in your head. 

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mckitterick

had to share @rykhafirehand ’s tags:

thank you for boiling off capitalist propaganda to get down to the essence of economics

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roach-works

i’d like to add: you are SUPPOSED TO HAVE DISPOSABLE INCOME.

you are supposed to have enough money for toys and games and vacations. that is what the citizens of a normal and healthy society should be buying without stressing out about if they’re gonna be able to afford to live the next day. you’re not just supposed to have ‘a little bit’ or ‘if you save up’ or ‘sometimes you can treat yourself’, you are supposed to have disposable income, and plenty of it.

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prokopetz

Post-apocalyptic video game where every single NPC is wearing Mad Max style, tits out, leather and chains, piercings in places you didn’t know could be pierced wasteland chic and sporting names like Buzzsaw and Fuckface, but the actual story and gameplay is a pleasant slice-of-life farming sim and never once attempts to explain or justify why its cast of characters is Like That – they just are.

The crops are all referred to in the user interface and dialogue by the names of perfectly ordinary real-world plants, while the graphics are very clearly Not That. At one point an NPC casually mentions needing to spay their carrots. This is not elaborated upon.

One of the ramshackle cottages near the centre of the community is covered inside and out by some unidentifiable fleshy growth, all gnarled pulsing veins and staring inhuman eyes. Their name is Leslie, and they’re a valued member of the community; the closest anyone comes to acknowledging that anything unusual is going on is when you’re asked to donate food for Leslie’s pantry because, you know, they don’t get out of the house much these days, the poor dear.

(Leslie is a potential romantic partner for the player character. Some of the other NPCs will give you the side-eye if you actually pursue them, though – not because they disapprove in principle, but because they’re concerned you may be Taking Advantage.)

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nitashinori

That post about death note being "everyone's first anime" (untrue statement) made me curious and now I want to gather data for science

Can you reblog this and tell me where are you from and what was your starter anime?

I’m legitimately curious why anyone thinks Death Note is everyone’s first anime. Is it because of the live action movie??

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sandwichears

Uh, what abt Pokémon lol

Oh yeah Pokémon was definitely the first for a lot of people lol.

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2-point-5

it bugs me how many lesbians have issues with trans women. like, we're supposed to love women. what's next, you gonna start hating short people too? fuck off.

AND TRANS GUYS. "ooohhhhh they're betraying womanhood" no, they're men. jfc not everything is a personal attack some people are just guys.

reblog this version too actually

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reblogged

Yall wanna be gnc and androgynous but hate intersex people and the idea of being intersex so much, I remember reading about PCOS potentially being considered an intersex disorder and having 100s of people dismiss it because "we can't just be calling 1 in 10 women intersex" or being in transmasc spaces and constantly being told that bottom growth and T dicks are undesirable and that people find non standard genetalia gross, in a GENDER INCLUSIVE SPACE.

The lgbt Community seriously needs to grapple with its hatred of intersex features and stop seeing androgyny that isn't pretty waify white person. You all love femme presenting androgyny but hate when people are androgynous in a broad or hairy way.

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the courier in FNV is so fucking funny if you’re just good at tanking damage and dogshit at dodging attacks because they get shot two (twice) times, get revived, and suddenly they can start sleeping off gunshot wounds to the head, dynamite to the legs, and having their torso littered with laser rifle holes. like can you imagine being benny and knowing that the dude who stepped on three direct landmines and didnt break a sweat is after your ass. terrifying.

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