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anni • twenty-seven • finland
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forzafinally

LISTEN golden is the most underrated song on fine line no one talks about the Complexities of the lyrics enough...........the way it does such a good job of portraying an emotion that is so hard to describe.....how SAD it truly is contrasted by the upbeat summery sound of it like!!!!!!! hello!!!!! golden stans make some noise 😔

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moonlitsaturn

(experiences feeling i can’t bear to express to anyone) oh, i think that’s very fresh… very sexy of me…

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helperhoopoe

remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.

“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”

“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”

rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.

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randomslasher

This is really important for future predictions, too. “You’re eventually going to leave me” is impossible for someone else to disprove without just sticking around forever, but no one wants to stick around when they’re being constantly accused of future abandonment. Giving someone no choice but to either stay with you forever in order to prove you wrong or leave you and prove you right is incredibly emotionally manipulative, whether you mean it to be or not.

“I get scared sometimes because I’m afraid of being alone again” is easier to address and doesn’t leave your partner(s)/friend(s) feeling as though they’re being preemptively accused of something.  

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