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Adventures Of A Bard

@the-errant-bard / the-errant-bard.tumblr.com

A 33 yo wanna be bard, she/her
(Also Mandy-Lorien, this is my original tumblr)
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I'm currently in NC which while it's not currently as harmful to trans folk as other southern states, the legislation is starting to lean in that direction. I'm trying to move up to New York State to be closer to friends and find new opportunities in a location that I'll feel more comfortable being out.

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This is Sierra. I don't have much time. His scaley little claws have taken over this account. I must.... Tummypost.... Before... It's too late....

Aajajakak.....

Pray for me

Oh also this Giant Sequoia tank top is like, my new favorite thing in this world and I'm going to force y'all to see it over and over and over and over and

Where'd you get it from?

Thanks bestie! I love them!

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skimmer-vode

@sanguine-raven Birb shirt!

woag!! birb shirts and pretty people :3

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i notice ppl seem to use “modern au” to also imply “city au” a lot and I think it’s so funny when I see “modern” bg3 au art and fics and Halsin is like living in a high rise and tending to his window garden.

y’all know we have the woods in real life right

OR get that man involved in urban permaculture and community farming and food justice at LEAST

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itswalky

imagine watching Star Wars in theaters in 1977 and pointing at Darth Vader boarding a ship with Stormtroopers and then choking some guy, and exclaiming THAT'S CLEARLY JESUS CHRIST, THAT'S WHY I'M INTO THIS

Love Star Wars. Love the Bible. I love the story about how Jesus *checks notes* cut off his son’s hand.

remember when satan took jesus out into the desert for 40 days to tempt him and satan was like "hey murder these younglings" and then jesus murdered them and then john the baptist cut off his arms and legs

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we should hype up bottom surgery more i think. both twitter transphobes and chronically online trans people really like to be disgusted at phalloplasty, vaginoplasty, ext. and i really think we should treat them as cool and sexy and neutral like top surgery scars or whatever

As of tomorrow I will be 49 weeks post bottom surgery. And lemme tell you...it's pretty great.

There was a level of constant dysphoria from having a dick that I didn't even know I had until it was gone.

Vaginoplasty is pretty amazing. I'm very, VERY happy about having gotten it.

Some things to keep in mind:

  • The first year can be rough at times, because it takes approximately 48-52 weeks to fully heal, but the further you get into that year, the easier it gets.
  • Healing time also depends on if you get the surgery with or without cavity. Be realistic going in and make sure to read all the literature your clinic sends you.

I say this because a lot of the negative shit around bottom surgery hinges on people NOT knowing about the healing time and using the shock value of not-yet-healed surgical wounds. Bottom surgery is FUCKING AMAZING, but yeah, it can be gross and painful at first.

I had my surgery done at GRS Montreal. The staff there are AMAZING. They were kind, patient, and helpful.

Here's some bottom surgery facts:

  1. Yeah, it'll be gross at first. The first 90 days is when all the surface-level healing happens. As with any major surgery, healing is gross. It gets a lot less gross once the surgical wounds heal, the swelling goes down, and the packed gauze in your clitoris comes out (it's there to maintain the shape while healing).
  2. There is scarring, but it fades. Rub silicon gel into it 3-4 times a day for several months once the wounds close. After a year the scarring is minimal, and it will keep fading. I don't even notice it anymore.
  3. Everything WORKS. Stuff feels good. Orgasms are AMAZING.
  4. It has absolutely made me feel more confident as a woman. It is INCREDIBLY gender affirming.

Dilation is a pain in the ass for the first 4-5 months. Not because it hurts, but because you have to do it so often. After that it becomes more like "here is an hour a day that I set aside for me time". At the end of the first year you will only have to do it once or twice a week, at which point it definitely becomes more like just setting aside a bit of time to get in touch with your womanhood, just to relax.

Dilation doesn't hurt (though it can be uncomfortable in the first month or so while the swelling comes down). Your new vagina is a part of your body and your body takes care of it. It is honestly pretty neat!

Bottom surgery is legitimately AMAZING. It has been practiced for almost 100 years. It is established medical practice. Do not let transphobes dissuade you from it!

Oh no, trans ppl definitely get hate for wanting or getting bottom surgery and it's not just from terfs

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xenodogz

porn is unequivocally art btw

creating an image or a film of yourself exposing the most intimate parts of your body for other people's pleasure is a deeply profound and artistic act. pleasure is not a shameful thing. if a work of art pleases you, good. it's doing what art does— make its audience feel.

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