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JaiLand

@societalfailure / societalfailure.tumblr.com

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Streaming services are ruining the one feature people loved: no ads.

#BoringDystopia #LateStageCapitalism

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wilwheaton

Enshittification is not a consequence of Capitalism; it is one of Capitalism's fundamental principles:

Here is how platforms die: first, they are good to their users; then they abuse their users to make things better for their business customers; finally, they abuse those business customers to claw back all the value for themselves. Then, they die. I call this enshittification, and it is a seemingly inevitable consequence arising from the combination of the ease of changing how a platform allocates value, combined with the nature of a "two sided market", where a platform sits between buyers and sellers, hold each hostage to the other, raking off an ever-larger share of the value that passes between them.
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kunosoura

not that either is a good thing but there is a small cosmic sort of irony to appreciate in the way that the russian invasion of ukraine and the most recent nakba happened so close together and how they through comparison made it undeniably clear how much the definition of war crime and genocide and atrocity &etc depends on the geopolitical interests of the imperial core

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While the Super Bowl happened, and Israel paid to run an ad, they also bombed Rafah. Rafah is the southernmost part of Gaza to where over one million people were displaced.

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leebrontide

I know the US government acts like a corporation but it’s not.

Not voting isn’t the same as a boycott. Because you can’t bankrupt a government by not voting. All you get by not voting is less control over what the money is doing.

The money comes from taxes, not voting. Abstaining from voting does nothing to reduce the governments ability to get money and spend it on shit.

So yes, sometimes you vote to reduce harm because not voting WILL NOT REDUCE HARM.

It’s not a boycot. Abstaining doesn’t take power from the government. It just reduces the number of people they feel answerable to.

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wilwheaton
“In a long essay about the televised incident, Wheaton makes a lot of salient, emotionally vulnerable points about his reaction to David’s stunt, tying it in to memories of parental abuse he suffered as a kid—pointing out, among other things, that, within the agreed-upon fiction that we all adhere to pretty fervently around all things Muppet or Muppet-related, Elmo is a child. Writing, Wheaton notes that “Elmo is an avatar for children all over the world. Children who are too small to understand Elmo is a puppet will know that a man attacked someone they love for no reason, and that will frighten and confuse them.””

This story is a week old, and has blown up today. The right wing smoothbrains are out in force, doing their usual thing, until they get distracted by the existence of a successful woman somewhere in the world and have to go rage against that.

I don’t know why this is happening today. I don’t know why right wing clout chasing incels have decided to make this their Thing today. It’s all very confusing, especially a week after the fact.

But I want to put something here that I added to my post on Facebook, that those dudes (it’s always dudes whose entire personality is “MONSTER ENERGY DRINKS!”) need to hear but won’t understand:

A lot of us who had the same visceral reaction to a grown man putting his hands on a child (Elmo is 4 years old) in anger, without consent, and then laughing about it all share an experience that you should be grateful you don’t share with us. And when you say your shitty little toxic and cruel thing, when you reduce the whole thing to a puppet and a joke, you’re doing to us what the adults around us did when we were kids. And it hurts all over again. Are you really someone who wants to hurt another person simply because you can? Maybe take the impulse to be a jerk and redirect it into being grateful you have no idea why this is so upsetting to so many of us.

Larry David put his hands on another performer, without consent, in a segment he was not part of. That, alone, is not okay. It is not EVER okay. The fact that so many people don’t get that, or are deliberately choosing NOT to get that, is telling.

But as I said, Elmo is a child, and he is a friend to children, so all the kids whose parents were watching the Today Show with them, because Elmo was on to talk about sharing big feelings and caring for your mental health, got to watch this man storm into a set, and angrily attack Elmo.

That’s indefensible behavior, and calling me names doesn’t change that.

After reading what you wrote here, I think I can put my finger on why these kinds of dudes made Elmo a target.

The clarifying sentence:

And when you say your shitty little toxic and cruel thing, when you reduce the whole thing to a puppet and a joke, you’re doing to us what the adults around us did when we were kids.

Reduce the whole thing to a puppet and a joke– that’s what they like to see. The video comments snarkily that Elmo is actually “someone’s hand.” This stance isn’t something they adopt to dismiss their behaviour. It’s the REASON FOR their behaviour.

This sort of dude (I have met women like this, but they have always turned out to work in a hyper-masculine environment such as tech or construction, where they likely have to assimilate such an attitude to get along) has a really big problem with engaging in collective social fiction, in part because they haven’t gotten over feeling like they need to prove to their peers that they aren’t a gullilble child who believes in Santa Claus. Their personal walls of self defense are spun around the sort of materialistic realism that also diminishes the importance of invisible, immaterial effects such as feelings. Which, of course, is what Elmo is all about.

These guys are raging that something invisible, immeasurable and unprovable– feelings– is being given an important place in media, and worse yet, the spokesperson for it is the most whimsical possible kind of fiction. This goes against a lot of what they’ve developed their mindsets around– that only tangible assets are worth anything, that immaterial truths can be faked or dispensed with.

It’s not new to have nonfiction media play along with Muppets as if they were real. But unlike Miss Piggy the material girl, or Kermit the observer and reporter, Elmo is primarily associated with immaterial values like imagination and love. Elmo is here to talk about mental health. Elmo is an icon of all of the things that were not given an place in the public view of “wellbeing” until the past couple decades because they are not material assets, while these dudes were raised to specifically reject anything fuzzy, indistinct, personal, and immeasurable like feelings as being “worthless” compared to hard, objective data. Elmo represents the epitome of everything that some dudes were taught to mock and reject, and that they express their identity by spurning. And here it is on the Today Show being given a place as serious as their own.

I suppose the actor who attacked Elmo legit thought that his act was funny, at least to people who shared his sense of humour. These guys and their humour depends heavily on their own shared mutual agreement that anything they can’t back up with a material W is a big L, so hitting Elmo in the face is a “hilarious” reminder that the puppet character isn’t real, that no real material harm is being caused, and– implicitly– a big flex that dudes like them possess physical power and therefore can trample both Elmo’s fictional existence, and anything Elmo is there to stand up for.

But a normal, well-adjusted person, who doesn’t find it intrinsically funny to knock down the fourth wall with a display of inescapable material power, isn’t going to “get the joke”. At best they’re just going to be like, wtf why did you do that, you’re ruining the segment, you’re wrecking the entertainment that the show planned. And, if you are at all sensitive to the idea of seeing an adult hit a child, you may take it as if it’s supposed to be hitting Elmo in-character, at which point it just looks like the narrative is that he hit a child for no reason. Which is distinctly not funny, and can be very understandably distressing.

tl;dr these guys are threatened by the social request that we all play along with Muppets, because they never got over being told only losers play along with Santa. And they are especially threatened by Elmo because they might have to acknowledge that feelings matter, and they’ve spent their whole lifetime posturing in rejection of that.

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