I know I already did this, but other ways to contact me (because I’m leaving this blog to collect dust):
Twitter: @_Itherael
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I know I already did this, but other ways to contact me (because I’m leaving this blog to collect dust):
Twitter: @_Itherael
Discord: Serathiel#2378
AO3: Itherael
what i expected raturine to be:
aventurine: ooooh you want to kiss me so bad it makes you look stupid
dr ratio: kill urself
what i got:
aventurine: yea he thinks i’m stupid and hates me lmao
dr ratio: i can't say it out loud but i want you to stay alive. i love you and i really value you as a person and a companion. you don’t have to go through this alone
Im gonna shill for Marie Kondo again but this is why I find her books (yes, books, the TV show is fun but ultimately misses a lot of the core ideas) so good.
A lot of home org advice fully misses this aspect. Kondo not only acknowledges it, but leans into it. And ultimately this helps motivste me to keep my space tidy - it's really hard to me to keep on the nebulous goal of self-care, but much easier to get up and put things away if I envision my salt and pepper grinders as like, retail workers who are now standing in an empty shop (my dining table) and just wanna go home (the spice rack where they live).
Normie tidying process: that heater should be put away for summer! I mean, I'm not gonna need it
Me: well it's just chilling and also I can't be arsed.
Kondo: that heater has done a good job keeping you warm over winter and now it should get to go have a rest in the cupboard
Me: !! Sabbatical for my heater!! Thank you for your service sir and have a very nice break!
just saw a tiktok or something where the person was saying they did this and they were on a hike and they were like "i managed to get myself to go on this hike because i promised my boots we would go" and its like. OH YEAH. THAT.
just a fuckin big bird
very important research