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nina / 26 / australia / ---> kpop sideblog
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leninlenout

kinda stealing this idea from a post on fb, but a thing that fucks me up is i spent most my life assuming I’d kill myself before this age, and very little time thinking or planning for how to be a responsible adult

I suspect this is true for a looooooot of lgbt adults tbh, and its such a tragic thought now that I really think about it

#honestly yeah#i feel like i'm 10 years behind on my life i'm only just doin the stuff now i should have at 18 lol#it's taken me that long to just come to terms with the fact that oh being alive is an option! wow!#suicide
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babyfairy

i hate that we live in a world where mentally ill people feel obligated to apologize for relapsing/being suicidal/having breakdowns/hitting rock bottom like….there’s nothing worse than being in that position and feeling like you’re just letting everybody around you down. that makes my heart ache so much

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lyjerria

Accept the fact that you will grow apart from people you’ve had significant relationships with. Understand when someone no longer positively affects your life. Let them go. Don’t hinder your growth.

#or theirs!
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vibrantbloom
All the reading I was given to do in school was always heterosexual, every movie I saw was heterosexual, and I had to do this translation. I had to translate it to my life rather than seeing my life. Which is why when people say to me, “Your work is not really gay work, it’s universal.” And I say, “Up yours. It’s gay. And that you can take it, and translate it to your own life is very nice, but, at last, I don’t have to do the translating. You do.”

Harvey Fierstein, The Celluloid Closet (via sonnywortzik)

#the translating is hard and tiring and i get sick of engaging w media in general after a while
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godblessandcheerthefuckup
What woman here is so enamored of her own oppression that she cannot see her heelprint upon another woman’s face? […] I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from my own.

Sister Outsider, Audre Lorde (via blucomelamarea)

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