okay i will say obviously i loved this book but i do sometimes feel that single pov romances tend to miss out on getting the most from the non-pov love interest, which i felt was kind of true here. i like luis, and it's not that he doesn't feel fully fleshed out, but i still felt a little like i was missing a little, that i wasn't getting all of him. im not sure that's avoidable in single-pov tho.
spoilers for the prospects
normally i find the third act breakup in romances really annoying and avoidable but i liked the way it was handled in this book because it was kind of unavoidable. it needed to happen, and it wasn't some misunderstanding blown out of proportion, it actually made sense and worked narratively!
you can preorder "the prospects" by kt hoffman through the ripped bodice and get my art on baseball cards. and then you can read the book and understand how perfect these characters are.
seeing reviews of the prospects calling it "high heat" none of u know what that means. it's clearly medium heat it's not THAT smutty
this book is making me so happy it makes me look stupid
been listening to audiobooks all week but started a physical book last night and got mad that i couldn't read and drive at the same time this morning :/
girl who finishes books 😇
just got jumpscared hearing my name in a book and of course it's someone's mildly homophobic mother... add it to the list!
can hoopla pls add more lesbian audiobooks my crops are dying
wait the other thing that kept making my laugh abt those baseball books was that they always referred to their balls as "nuts" during sex scenes and it made me laugh every single time
i hope playing for keeps by jennifer dugan is good i want it to be good so badly
was reading a gay baseball romance book yesterday and all i kept thinking was "boys are not like this in real life"
Underrated sapphic media? Fried Green Tomatoes is first on my list
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Fundraiser masterpost
This is a masterpost for the evacuation fundraisers I've vetted so far, a few other fundraisers I find trustworthy but have not been able to vet (inability to communicate with the organizer), and a few semi-completed fundraisers or fundraisers for a different purpose (like house rebuilding, or aid distribution). The numbers next to the names have no significance beyond ease of navigation for me for when I check their progress in the future. You should look at the disclaimers instead and focus on those. Occasionally I will update these with new info, including new fundraisers, and the amount of cash that's been raised. Check in regularly on the original post when you see it being reblogged. In all likelihood once its reached you it's already outdated. Also please don't overlook the Sustainable Aid options near the bottom! The brain drain is already creating problems but having another way of keeping or creating new knowledge and key members of a functioning society is important.
VETTED FAMILY ESCAPE FUNDRAISERS
- Walaa Abusamra (1). 10 family members. 15.9k out of 80k €.
- Ezzideen Shehab (2). 6 family members. 4.3k out of 32.5k €.
- Madleen Abu Jayyab (3). 4 family members. 4.5k out of 70k USD.
- Jehad Shehada (4). 1 individual. 2.6k out of 15k CAD.
- Aser Alassar (5). 5 family members. 258k out of 550k SEK. Or 24k out of 51k USD.
- My friend Mona Abu Hamda (6). 9 family members. 52k out of 75k USD.
- Mohammed Shamia (7). 7 family members. 1.9k out of 35k USD.
- Abdullah Al-Saghir (8). 9 family members. 65k out of 100k €.
- Randa Abubakr (9). 6 family members. 10.2k out of 14k €.
- Fadi Alshrafi (10). 9 family members. 40k out of 85k USD.
- Osama Abdelrahman. (11). 9 family members. 27k out of 45k €.
- Alhaw family and the Albittar family (12). Between 18 and 12 family members. 4.5k out of 90k €. (EXTREMELY LOW, NEEDS FUNDS)
- Verified Fundraiser by Palestine Asdiqa to help a malnourished baby with cerebral palsy. (13) 6.3k out of 31k USD.
- Rana Abu Ahmed (14). 6 family members. 65.5k out of 66k CAD. NEARLY COMPLETE.
- Mohammed Abu Matar (15). 6 family members. 5k out of 34k CAD.
- Moataz Abu Sakran (16). 3 family members. 12.4k out of 20k $.
- Ayah Abu Sidu (17). 10 family members. 15.2k out of 50.4k USD.
- Said Fadel (18). 7 family members. 19k out of 50k USD.
- Tasneem Nabil Musa (19). 7 family members (ALL INJURED, NEED MEDICAL CARE.) 13.2k out of 50k USD
- Belal Azmi Msallam (20). 14 family members. 7.1k out of 160k AUD.
- Mortaja Family (21). 11 family members. 28k out of 70k €.
- Abu Ramadan family (22). 14 family members. 10k out of 148k €.
- Mai Rajab (23). 42.3k out of 50k USD (CLOSE TO COMPLETION)
- Amal Abu Shammala (24). 4 family members. 33.1k out of 42k €.
- Maryam & family (25). 29.5k out of 50k USD.
- Haneem Abdelhalim (26). 8 family members. 31k out of 40k USD raised.
- Ahmed Masoud (27). 12 family members. 8.3k out of 60k €.
- Mohammed Fareed (28). 21.7k out of 60k CAD.
- Lena Nofal (29). 34.7k out of 35k € (NEARLY COMPLETE)
- Rasheda Alfaiomy (30). 6+ family members. 22.6k out of 65k USD.
- Ula El Hindi (31). 1+ individuals. 8.2k out of 15k €.
- Muhammad Safi (32). 5+ family members. 4k out of 30k BP.
- Yazan Khalaf (33). 18 family members. 12.4k out of 40k USD.
- Afaf Masoud (34). 5+ family members. 55.1k out of 75k €.
- Motasem Khayal (35). 5 family members. 492 out of 43k € (26.5k needed for escape.) EXTREMELY LOW, NEEDS FUNDS.
- Youseff Abu Saeed (36). 3 family members (1 is already out for treatment). 154k out of 200k USD.
- Abdulaziz & Abdullah, escape & surgery (37). 2+ family members (1 has already been treated, 1 NEEDS TREATMENT). 95k out of 150k BP.
- Nadine Abdullatif (38). 8 family members. 103k out of 130k AUD.
- Sami Salhab (39). 6 family members (5 already evacuated). 13.1k out of 26k €.
- Jehad Al Ghandour (40). 5 family members (1 already evacuated). 30.6k out of 100k USD.
MORE VETTED FAMILY ESCAPE FUNDRAISERS (tumblr has a character-per-block limit, there's no difference between the following fundraisers and the previous ones).
- Mahmoud Algharabli (41). 16 family members (4 already evacuated). 48k out of 57.6k USD.
- Dr. Marah & family (42). 2+ family members. 5.1k out of 40k USD.
- Khaled Alshabrawi (43). 5 family members. 1.4k out of 35k € (25k needed for escape, but will begin with 10k for stable housing).
- Muhammad Osama Alzaq (44). 5 family members. 2.1k out of 60k BP.
- Mohammed Wishah (45). 7 family members + 1 pet. 2.3k out of 71.5k €.
- Muhe Ayman (46). 5+ family members. 3.6k out of 60k €. (CAUTION: If you scroll down in the GFM there are photos of mutilated and dead babies.)
- Abdallah Animal Rescue (47). 1 individual + lots of pets. 30.4k out of 40k USD.
- Haya Orouq (48). 5 family members (1 injured, NEEDS TREATMENT). 29.5k out of 50k.
- Retaj Abu Abdo (49). 8 family members. 7.8k out of 80k USD.
- Mohammed Zyad (50). 9 family members (1 MISCARRIAGE). 4.7k out of 40k BP.
- Souad Al-Kurdi (51). 5 family members (1 DIABETIC W/O INSULIN, CRITICAL, 1 INJURY). 1.2k out of 50k €.
- Mahdy Zourob (52). 1 individual. 141 out of 20k €. LOW ON FUNDS.
- Ahmed Alboji (53). 5 family members. 65.7k out of 75k USD. (TIME SENSITIVE)
- Sama Lulu (54). 7 family members. 1k out of 80k USD. LOW ON FUNDS.
- Ottawa4Palestine’s vetted fundraiser spreadsheet (76 different families with listed fundraisers)
UNVETTED, BUT HIGHLY LIKELY LEGITIMATE ESCAPE FUNDRAISERS:
- Rasha family (1). 5 family members. 811 out of 15k € (EXTREMELY LOW, NEED FUNDS)
- Natasha Matar (2). 14 family members. 18.1k out of 200k CAD (140k needed for escape).
- Islam Daher (3). 6 family members. 2.3k out of 50k CAD.
- Qasim Al-Kafarneh (4). 12 family members. 5.7k out of 80k AUD.
- Ahmed M. Saleh (5). 4 family members. 7.8k out of 35k €.
- Salwa Zarifa (6). 4 family members. 1.6k out of 50k €.
- Moutasem Quffa (7). 6+ family members. 7k out of 65k €.
- Alaa Nidal (8). 4 family members (2 already evacuated). 5.4k out of 12k $.
- Zeina and her family (9). 3 family members (1 evacuated, 2 NEED TREATMENT). 5.3k out of 90k $.
- Jamila Begum (10). 7 family members. 35k needed. UNKNOWN STARTING AMOUNT. Zelle 347-738-0257, and Venmo @/merilm
OTHER FUNDRAISERS:
- Mohammad Qadas. NEEDS TREATMENT + FOOD.
- Help Yousef Replant Family Farm & Greenhouse. 2k out of 50k BP. SUSTAINABLE AID.
- Rebuilding Developers Plus and Gaza’s community. 2.4k out of 47k €. SUSTAINABLE AID.
- Eman Abdel Rahman. Need help rebuilding home and access to food. 7.1k out of 42.6k USD.
- Ibrahim Adil Osman. All intended beneficiaries have escaped, they just need some financial support to start being stable enough to make money to get more family members to escape.
- Abd Al Karim Adnan Alakklouk. Most intended beneficiaries have escaped, they just need some financial support to start a new life and send more family members money to survive.
- Samar Elrayih Hydoub. It seems that most family members have been evacuated, but they need an emergency 1.5k for medical expenses.
- Bana AZ. All intended beneficiaries have escaped, they just need a bit of support in establishing a new life. (only 866 € left to meet goal)
- Kareem Abu Samra. All intended beneficiaries have been able to escape. They just need support to establish a new life.
- Helping the People of Gaza – Mutual Aid Fund (run by my friend Mona)
- Supporting Displaced Families in Gaza (CareForGaza)
- Emergency Medical Relief for Gaza Refugees.
- Help Sudan Tarada Initiative.
- Amer Qudaih’s Relief efforts in Gaza.
obsessed with how often women describe falling in love with other women as a quieting, a moment of stillness and calm where before there was noise.
Kathee Muzin on the first time she fell in love with a woman, from The Montreal Gazette, 1991
Poetry published in Come Out, 1972
First Love Poem in Recent Memory, Julien Baker