this isn't me doing a bit btw but people really want to talk about "transgender milfs" and then treat trans women/fems who genuinely want to get pregnant and be mothers like shit.
like it's a really rough experience feeling that alienated from your body and desires and the amount of hostility towards literally just wishing you could be a mother in a specific way and being upset that you can't is really fucked. everyone is so fucking hostile and weird about bodily autonomy including wanting to have a kid.
like people act like transfems are delusional for wishing they could have kids and society treats the idea transfem uterus transplants as either a laughable joke or a disgusting perversion. like fuck, be nicer. treat them right.
the next person to interrupt a transfem wishing they could bear children to lecture them on how awful pregnancy is and how they'd obviously never understand that because of their body and they're actually just reinforcing gender stereotypes and patriarchy is getting actually killed. sorry, but die.
also if someone is upset they have to go through medication or procedures that sterilise them to get their gender recognised where they live and you go "uh why would you even want to have kids? that'd make me so dysphoric" you're also getting killed.