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What’s really annoying is the only way to get over good fuck is to find just as good or better dick 😒

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People really overestimate how private rich men are. They will literally send you the names and pictures of all their kids, where they go to school, where he works, where he lives, where he vacations, his ex-wife’s location, his doctor’s address, his driver’s license plate number, etc etc. They really do not give a fuck.

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I’m still with my Sugar BF but honestly he was hiding it for a while, but COVID has put a hurting on his cash flow. New money 🙄. And it is just now returning to normal, but honestly I can’t stand to even have sex with him anymore. I’m just so turned off. I feel like I deserve way more. Like I should be in a penthouse multi level suite right now soaking in a claw foot tub, flying to tulum and back on the weekends first class/private, having stores shut down for me to shop, private chefs coming to cook for us... I used to think these things were ridiculous, but I don’t care anymore. I’m going after the ridiculous. I’ll be leaving him. He was good for where I was at in my life, but it’s time to get going. I have my own money, I have the elite education, I have the looks. I’m done settling.

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Whoa! I forget all about tumblr and come back and see it’s a desert. I really feel like posting on Tumblr more. My life is about to change a lot in the next few years. I’m going to be busier than I ever have been before. I’m scared and excited. I still plan on “sugaring” but escorting has to be done for me based on where my life is headed. In a few years I might have to have my shit scrubbed clean as to make sure my old life is nowhere on the internet. ANYWAY!! To anyone who is still here I’m going to be moving soon and I cannot figure out which city would be right for a girl like me. I like to socialize and covid has made me regret the years that I’ve been too self-conscious and didn’t put myself out there. No more. I’m tall, medium-dark skin and my body type is athletic/skinny. My choices are DC, NYC, and Chicago. I cannot figure out which one. NYC seems obvious but I’m not really sure I can handle all the competition tbh. I’ve lived in the area my whole life until recently and it’s been good to me, but I’m not sure...but honestly it’s what I really want. Can any black girls in Chicago and DC vouch for the culture out there and if the scene is good. Honestly, I know I can find a man to take care of me anywhere lol but I want it to be easy lmao. With NYC being hit so hard by covid I’m worried I won’t be able to get out there and make the contacts I need to make.

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What To Do If Raped By a POT/SD

I just read a post about a SB being forced into sex against the conditions she clearly established with the man and essentially being raped. It made me so emotional and angry, I just broke down crying. There ARE things you can do in this situation, so I’m making this post with hopes to keep more girls safe. 

“Rapes are usually never reported because of all the guilt. You might feel dirty, ashamed and violated. But you should know that rape is a crime too, and just like in any other case, the attacker is the only one who should be ashamed.”

Before you get intimate:

  • Take a basic self-defense course, such as Rape Aggression Defense (RAD). The 12-hour basic class includes three hours of classroom discussion, six hours learning hands-on defensive techniques, and three hours of simulation activity.Find a program near you here. 
  • Invest in a disguised weapon and leave it on the nightstand next to the bed or on the bed next to you. If things go wrong, USE IT. Examples: 
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Buy the knife here.  Buy the pepper spray here.

When the assault is happening: 

  • Try to non-objectify yourself and become a person in the attacker’s eyes. Tell them: “I’m frightened!”“Let’s talk about this.” “I haven’t done anything to you.”“Would you do this to someone you cared about?” 
  • If you think you’re in hearing range of others, don’t just scream. Yell phrases that let others know something is wrong and it’s not a joke. Phrases like ”POLICE!” “CALL 911 NOW!”
  • Notice and leave identifying marks. A large bite mark on their face, punctured eyeball, deeply scratched leg, ripped out piercing etc. is easily identifiable, as are memorable tattoos, etc. Think kill. Go for weak spots like eyes (poke hard), nose (hard upward motion with the lower part of your open hand) genitals (grab really tightly and squeeze or punch hard) etc. to make sure the person’s hands aren’t free to punch or hold on to you and you can run for it. If you are in a place where you can’t run, notice your surroundings and leave a mark on them if you can. Rapists have been caught because their victims left identifiable teeth marks, nail marks, or DNA in the cars or rooms where they were assaulted.
  • Try to scratch them or pull out a few loose hairs so that you’ll have a DNA sample for the police to convict him with and put his ass in jail, to be raped by other guys for the rest of his sad life. 

If you were assaulted less than 96 hours ago (4 days):

Call the police in the jurisdiction in which the assault occurred, and file a police report. The police will escort you to the nearest hospital with a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner program or other appropriate facility if major trauma is involved.

If the assault happened more than 96 hours ago (4 days):

Contact the police department in the jurisdiction in which the assault occurred. Explain what happened. The police will set up an appointment for you to come in and make an official statement. You can also call a Hotline Operator at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1.800.656.HOPE. Your call will be kept anonymous and confidential. 

  • Preserve all physical evidence of the assault. Do not shower, bathe, douche, eat, drink, wash your hands, or brush your teeth until after you have had a medical examination. Save all of the clothing you were wearing at the time of the assault. Place each item of clothing in a separate paper bag. Do not use plastic bags. Do not clean or disturb anything in the area where the assault occurred.
  • If you suspect that you may have drugged, ask the hospital or clinic where you receive medical care to take a urine sample. Drugs, such as Rohypnol and GHB, are more likely to be detected in urine than in blood.
  • Write down as much as you can remember about the circumstances of the assault, including a description of the assailant.

Your safety, your life and your happiness ARE WORTH IT. Do not let ANYONE take that from you. If you have any questions or just need someone to talk to, don’t hesitate to contact me! Stay safe sugars xo

I had to pepper spray a POT one time because he tried this, shit was one of the craziest things I’ve ever experienced…..totally not cool

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Reblog and you’ll find money soon!

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nudiemuse

Yes.

Also weird I reblobbed the other money one last night and a freelance check I invoiced for a month ago came in.

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seriously have nothing to lose

Did it once might as well let it stack. At least I’m not buying loto tickets

You guys, I reblogged this 2 days ago out of desperation. Today I was looking through my old wallet for coins to go to the vending machine because that’s all I can fucking afford. I haven’t touched this thing since July/ August. When I found a disappointing 15 cents in the coin pocket I went to the billfold to see if any coins were in there. That’s when I saw them. 5 crisp bills amounting to $22. I literally screamed and danced around my room out of joy before remembering that I’d reblogged this post.

Tl;dr - This post is fucking magical and actually worked for me.

I’m broke as fuck. Money gods pls send me like 100k.

I never reblog these, let’s give it a shot. BIG MONEY, BIG MONEY

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niuniente

I reblogged this last week and withing an hour I got a client after a month of silence! Literally gave me money to eat for the rest of the month.

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doveclove

Crazy enough but my mom randomly gave me 200 dollars after I reblogged one of these the other day…

Amen

Reblobbed.

I have a theory that these posts actually gather energy from the wishes of people who reblog them and that’s why they work. Plus, yanno, they get passed around by witches…a lot. :)

lux-obscura

Financials are getting a little rocky here (new job was a pay cut and was supposed to be an hours increase but ended up being more of a cut/lateral move) and I’m still trying to figure out how to downgrade my spending (seriously how can I cancel some of my cable services and end up paying MORE than before fucking packages fucking Verizon…) so in the meantime I could really go for a cash infusion until I get myself sorted.

Ok this is such a ridiculous coincidence but I JUST reblogged this this morning and between then and now my tax refund hit my account 3 days early. Draw your own conclusions.

Forever reblogging lol

Trying to go home rich, 3 more days!!!

No joke, I reblogged and less than 3 hours later, without asking, daddy transferred $500 into my account and I got a $1500 check.

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