so much of being an ok person is just 1) not panicking, 2) not taking things personally, and 3) not letting the vindictive gargoyle that lives in your head tell you what to do. this sucks because brains love doing those things
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This is an Australian sponge crab. I can’t
hurgle
that is a cookie
wad of something
sports classification
get it away but also ima need that back
i need to stop picking at my face but the problem is theres Textures On There and i would prefer if there Werent
Absolutely Devastated to discover that attempting to Remove The Textures will cause new, much more Textured Textures To Appear
Surely if I remove this new Texture, however, it will be gone forever.
By Talos, this can’t be happening.
Gripping my bathroom sink repeating I am not afraid to keep on living I am not afraid to walk this world alone
I be like "omg, i have so much to do" and then go lay down
”getting thicker skin” is great in theory but I think for some people “get better at handling your thin skin” is gonna be way more helpful advice. I have strong emotional reactions to criticism and they might never go away, but i can continue to try and handle each situation maturely and that’s the important part. Sometimes irrational feelings are chronic and living with them is better than trying to beat yourself up into not having them.
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria is a recognized symptom of many neurodivergencies, and honestly sometimes it's just helpful for me to recognize that's what's happening. Like logically that person does not think terribly of me; I just am projecting my feelings about myself onto them. It's like knowing that your smoke alarm is wildly sensitive and goes off if you try to toast a slice of bread; the noise is still there and still annoying but you at least know that there's not a scarier cause than just your wiring malfunctioning again.
girls be like . ooh new bruise