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Beth. 42. Brazil. Taken. INFP. Lesbian ⚢ A helpless sports lover. Writer currently struggling with words.
Katie Mcgrath and Jes Macallan own my soul. Avalance territory. Legends of Tomorrow | Lost Girl | Supergirl | Batwoman | The Flash | Arrow | Blindspot | The Blacklist | She-Ra
“It is not that we are given a short life but we make it short, and we are not ill-supplied but wasteful of it.” Seneca Black Lives Matter
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Black sexuality representation we want to see

Greetings =) I was wondering if any Black mods and followers would be up to sharing your thoughts/feelings on portrayals of Black characters sexuality- given that a lot of portrayals hypersexualise or fetishize. What would you want to see/feel is more balanced given the way black people are treated in media at large? (thank you for doing what you do with this blog)

Here is my opinion on things that should be more represented in relationships involving Black characters, concerning their sexuality:

More queer relationships.

  • Black gay men or women
  • Bisexual characters
  • Aromantic or asexual characters too
  • Even though we tend to be more closeted depending on how theses identities are viewed in our communities (generally for religious motives), Black people aren’t “more straight” than White people for example.

Healthy and light-hearted relationships

  • Relationship not rooted in trauma or violence.
  • Going with that, more tenderness and romanticism too, with the funny-awkward moments that go with it.
  • Weird love declarations, embarrassing but lovingly awkward sexual situations.

Healthy family dynamics

  • I also want to add that it extends to family dynamics.
  • Black characters having a present partner for their children or having both their parents together (to be careful with the Absent Black Father trope).

More relationships involving two Black characters

More relationships involving two Black characters!! Lots of relationships involving a Black character involve a White lover. While this is okay, Black love could be a bit more depicted outside the romance genre (I’m thinking fantasy and science-fiction, or Young Adult).

More interracial relationships not involving a white partner.

These relationships can be harder to find in literature, due to the prevalence of the White lover.

There’s an amazing french graphic novel titled Amours croisées by Laura Nsafou and Camélia Blandeau which depicts Yari, a Black girl living in Paris, falling in love with Hide, who has East-Asian origins and mostly… is polyamourous. The graphic novel is about discovering different ways to love, including inside your own relationship. The drawing style and the plot are really soft. That’s an example of what can be done to depict our relationships in a caring way.

-Mod Lydie

Black followers, please add the BIPOC queer representation you want to see!

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My one basic opinion is that nobody should ever have to live in poverty and boy oh boy does this make some motherfuckers real mad!

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heartofmuse

Will you kiss me tonight?

Will you be tonight every moon and star in my sky?

Will you make forever memories on my skin?

Will you brand me with your fire?

Will you hold me in your arms until I forget everything but you?

Will you make me yours in body as I am yours in mind and soul?

e.v.e.

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darcyolsson

look i dislike the corporate artyle book cover trend as much as the next person but we cant pretend every book looking the same is something new. if you stepped into a bookstore in 2013 there would be approximately 57 books whose cover art consisted of a girl in a ballgown with her back half-turned to the camera photoshopped into a vaguely fantasy-like landscape. i was 11 years old fighting for my life to find the right maximalistic girl and her single-adjective book title we cannot forget the horrors i went through please be respectful of my experiences

the guardian angels of preteen girls........

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