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How do you (“how does one”) shop for a therapist?

Can you call up a therapist and be like “hi, I’m therapist shopping”? Can you schedule an appointment with a therapist and then be like “actually I have some questions and I want to spend part of this appointment talking about your practice and whether or not it is garbage?”? Are you expected to phone interview/screen your therapists if you are shopping around for a therapist?

If you’re seeing one therapist are you supposed to/not supposed to tell them if you start seeing another therapist? Is it possible to cheat on your therapist?

I know this one! Or, at least, I know a way to do it, because I’ve done it.

1) When you call them up (or email them, which I prefer, because PHONE, EW), you ask if they’re taking new patients.

2) If they say yes, say something along the lines of “Great! I’m looking for a new therapist. Would it be possible for me to schedule an appointment so we can see whether we’d be a good fit for one another?”

3) Assuming everything is a go, head over to the appointment. Bring your notebook, pen, and questions. Also, if possible, have a very brief rundown prepared of what you’d like to accomplish with your therapy (or even what you think your biggest issues are).

4) Introduce yourself. Reiterate that you want to see if the two of you would be a good fit, so [a nice little social laugh or smile here, while holding up your notebook] you brought questions.

5) Give the rundown of what you want, what your issues are, whatever. See how they react.

6) Ask your questions — about their therapeutic approach, why they entered the field, whether they feel comfortable working with *your* needs (I, for instance, specifically told my awesome therapist that I needed her to tell me absolutely nothing about her personal life or experiences — as much as possible, I needed a blank wall to bounce things off of. It’s been years now, and I THINK she’s seen at least a couple of episodes of Doctor Who. I THINK. That’s all I’ve got. It’s amazing).

7) By this point, you’ve probably hit the 45 minute mark, and you’ll know if you want to see this person again.

Regarding current therapists: If they’re toxic, get rid of ‘em before you even start interviewing others. Nobody needs that kind of garbage. Otherwise, you could keep seeing them while you interview others, and then the second you find one you like (and you schedule your next appointment), get rid of your current one. You don’t have to say why — just say that you’d like to cancel future appointments. Do it over email, if you want. If you like them, you can tell them that you just need something different now, but that you “really appreciate all the work we’ve done together” or something. If you don’t like them, just cancel. They don’t need to know jack.

So that’s my philosophy/style with regard to therapist shopping — I may be completely wrong, but it’s worked for me so far. Good luck!

This is really good advice

Yes, very good advice!

I needed this!! I recently moved and need to find a new therapist AND psych in my area. I was also super uncomfortable with my therapist, who literally said these words out loud from her mouth: “How do you know you’re pansexual if you’ve never had sex?”

nope bye

This is the advice I used when therapist shopping for my current therapist! I didn’t bring the notebook of questions cause there were a just a couple key things that I really wanted to make sure that were okay, but this gave me a good idea of what to look out for not related to the very specific stuff I was going to therapy for. But this guide is awesome.

I’ve never been so unafraid to see a therapist before I read this… I might give it a try.

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I Rate the Soras

1. Birth By Sleep 

The teensiest kiddo who must not have been listening when his mother told him not to talk to strangers. Still very wholesome and ambitious to open a hotel in his heart at the tender age of 4. 1000/10

2. Kingdom Hearts 1 

Tiny boy with giant feet learning the ways of the anime protag. The teenagiest of all the Soras in that he feels All Kinds of Emotions. The absolute cutest pouty face. 100000000/10

3. Kingdom Hearts: Chain of Memories

The Peter Parker in Spider-Man 3 Sora. Literally that one kid in high school who forgot all his friends existed the moment he became interested in a girl. Moody, but justifiably so, since he’s constantly being forced to play the card game War with strange people in black hoodies. Dishes out some of the most cathartic ass-kickings in the entire series here, though. 1000000/10

4. Kingdom Hearts II

The Most Adorable Sora, in this humble blogger’s opinion. More money in the budget means this boy has facial animations for days. Officially joins the workforce and can totally shred on a skateboard. Reaction Commands make this Sora the Scrappiest of them all. Was absolutely ready to throw hands with some random kid he just met after waking up from a 1-year nap. This is kind of the point where The Dumb begins to set in, though. More on that later. Still probably my favorite Sora tbh. 1000000000/10

5. Kingdom Hearts Coded

If the phrase “What the happ is fuckening” were a person. Has no idea what’s going on or what year it is but is very earnest and has a big ol’ heart. Very adaptable as he’s been proven to handle both button mashing and turn-based combat systems without issue. If KH2 Sora was Kind Of Dumb, then Coded Sora is Pretty Dumb. 10000/10

6. Kingdom Hearts 3D: Dream Drop Distance

I gotta be honest, guys. This is Peak Dumbass Sora. But what he lacks in brain he more than makes up for in heart!!! This is one of the most wholesome Soras we get in the entire series!! This kid literally has saved the worlds multiple times, almost died because his exam proctor couldn’t protect him from creepy old dudes hacking into his testing room, and STILL had it in him to be excited for his best buddy for passing the exam even though he flunked it. Friend To All Living Creatures. Would probably get giant footprints all over the walls from Flowmotion since he can’t stay still for three seconds though. 100000/10

7. Kingdom Hearts 3

The most adorable grandpa to ever fumble with a cellphone. All My Best Friends Are Disney Characters. Has grown from all of his past experiences into a well-rounded and respectable young man. Kind of that one kid who ends up doing all of the work on a group project because he doesn’t really trust anyone else to do it right. Becomes The Ultimate Sorcerer for some reason with OP magic, as if to show Donald how it’s done. Wants to return his ticket on the Sadness Train but ends up having to hitch a ride on it anyway, and for now, it doesn’t seem to have brakes. Send a letter home, kiddo. Or a text, but I don’t want to ask too much of you. 10000000/10

BONUS: Kingdom Hearts for V Cast

I am morally obligated to love every Sora and this one is no exception. A brave boy who likes to parasail and hang out on the beach. 100/10

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I can understand a family having two cars. Two or more adults needing to get to work or do their own thing….but why did rich fucks get 10+ cars that’ll never leave a garage? They’re literally bragging rights, no actual use. I don’t care if they’re classics or something, they’re tools that many families desperately need.

Or like, you’re rich so you get a yacht. Ok. I think that’s over the top but ok, you wanted a nice ass boat. But….2? 3? 4? 10? Why? What use are they but sitting there and being bragging rights?

Everyone needs shelter. Rich people having a home makes sense. Two I think is greedy, but whatever devils advocate summer and winter homes whatever. But why the fuck does the richest man on earth have over 30 homes? Once again, that’s bragging rights and greed. There’s no fucking use for that.

I get collecting shit, we all have stuff we like to collect. But I think there’s a sheer difference between collecting kamen rider merch and collecting tools that are necessary to life that serve no use to you.

go off op i love this

petty snarky roxas is hilarious but have u also considered. soft rikuroku

There is nothing that embodies all my favorite things in a character design more than

I look at this guy and go “well he’s just going to cast spells huh”

{word of final fantasy + some characters}

“congratulations you’re hired!”

“congratulations you’re approved!”

“congratulations you’re accepted!”

“congratulations you’re promoted!”

is all i want to hear 2019 🥳🤩

I just wanted to share a couple of SoRoku headcanons.

- Sora and Roxas can’t kiss. Every time they want to, as they lean in and get closer, both of them get so emotional, and when they can feel the other’s breath on his own lips, the two start to panic, their heartbeat increases, their bodies and breath shake, and even their joined hands tremble. Roxas and Sora are so close, very close to kiss, their lips almost brush, but they have to pull away at the last minute to get some air and calm down. That’s how much they are in love, overwhelmed by their own feelings.

- Roxas and Sora can kiss, but Roxas likes to tease his boyfriend. As Sora leans in, Roxas pretends to do the same but he actually opens his eyes, and slowly pulls away, staring at him. Sora doesn’t notice because his eyes are closed, and starts to wonder why he still hasn’t met the other’s lips. So he frowns, stretches his lips more and puffs his cheecks a bit. Roxas lets out a chuckle, because Sora reminds him of a cute little fish, and then the other opens his eyes and realizes. He makes a fuss and Roxas gives him the sweetest kiss to make up to him.

So that’s it, more or less! I should use them in the next fics, that would be so cute.