Accidental Absurdity

Hari Nef is helping to normalize transwomen’s bodies and identities in a really important way that if you’re cisgender you may not have thought about

Nef goes on to explain the difference between her photoshoot with Velencoso, versus how transgender women are typically photographed in fashion editorials. “Images of trans femmes being loved rarely exist outside of pornography,” Nef wrote. “We tend to be hyper-sexualized and objectified within the cisgender gaze. Either that or we’re dehumanized as scum or (just as bad) untouchable goddesses.”

Photos: Twitter/Hari Nef

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Ah this is very pretty

The Rat Diaries #1

in the wake of all this JK Rowling terf shit, I'm just gonna say cis LGB people have a responsibility to confront people using gay relationships as a reason for why trans people can't exist. if somebody says "sex has to exist for same-sex relationships exist" you come in and say "I'm a gay person and don't use me for your transphobic argument". you owe it to your community members to step in.

I dunno if this has been done before but I felt clever writing it.

Listen, I’m part of the generation that uses humor to cope, I love all the memes about 2020 just as much as you guys do. I laugh at the “we got the real roaring 20′s”, “we wanted 2020 to be a movie but we got the wrong genre”, “we really thought 2020 would be our year” sardonic tweets.

But to the people like me, who really thought 2020 would be their year?

Love, I’m so sorry. I’m so sorry you walked into this year with a smile and hope, and that smile immediately fell, and that hope was immediately crushed

I’m sorry that every day there’s something else, I’m sorry that you’re scared, I’m sorry that you’re angry, I’m sorry that you’re tired.

And I know, I know that you’re having a hard time hoping again. Trust me, I know.

But this year, Adam Castillejo became the second person to be cured of HIV

This year, James Patterson art up a fund to help Indie bookstores

This year, scientists finally managed to record the narwhal 

This year, White Storks have hatched the first wild chicks in 600 years

This year, the worlds largest open-air gallery was opened with paintings by individuals with learning disabilities

This year, an eleven year old skateboarder landed the worlds first 1080 degree turn

This year, scientists mapped the entire surface of the moon for the first time ever

This year, Sweden and Austria closed their last coal plants

This year, White Tailed Eagles are spotted flying over England for the first time in 240 years

This year, NASA launched astronauts to a US space station for the first time since 2011

To all the people like me, who thought 2020 was their year: We’re here. We’re alive. The world will grow. The world will heal. Maybe 2020 isn’t our year of stress free fun and memories, but it can be our year to learn and stand up and fight, so that next year? We get everything we hoped for.

Don’t give up, don’t leave. There’s a world waiting for you.

Broke: eat the rich

Woke: eat Jeff Bezos first

Heya, if you like queer stuff and also music go check out QueerSounds. I got to be a guest on the Podcast which was awesome. It's very queer (obvs) and we talk about music but also other things! Go check it out!

Heya, if you like queer stuff and also music go check out QueerSounds. I got to be a guest on the Podcast which was awesome. It's very queer (obvs) and we talk about music but also other things! Go check it out!

It's suddenly clear to me that I have been living my life wrong

I’ve learned a lot the past few years. For example, a phone torch does not make good mood lighting.

Also if you feel like, follow me on Twitter.

I’ve learned a lot the past few years. For example, a phone torch does not make good mood lighting.

Also if you feel like, follow me on Twitter.

I’ve learned a lot the past few years. For example, a phone torch does not make good mood lighting.

Also if you feel like, follow me on Twitter.

The rumors are true, I am somehow both cute and funny. Researchers are furious.

Quarantine is going well