Hey to all my fellow sugar sisters I desperately need your help!!

If you don’t know Houston is on day 4 of Hurricane Harvey. I as many other residents in/around the surrounding area has been impacted from several tornados, tropical storms and most importantly the flash floods for the last couple of days. Highways and freeways are submerged underwater, sink holes are opening up too.

My car is submerged underwater as well as my apartment @ 2AM Saturday morning. My property manager notified us that the complex is completely flooded because the mayor released both of the Addicks and Barker Cypress Dam yesterday so all of my belongings, savings, personal items are gone. I have applied for FEMA and unemployment (the entire medical center is flooded so I can’t work and BenTaub Hospital had to evacuate as well) but my paperwork is still processing.  I’ve taken shelter at strangers home ( don’t worry I have a pocket knife & pepper spray). All my bills were paid prior to the storm so that only left with $4.17 in my bank account. I literally only have my phone and charger and the clothes that I already had on. Other shelters have filled up quick

If anyone can donate, even if its a dollar I’d greatly appreciate it. I’m in need of clothes, toiletries, but most importantly food.

Please share!!

https://cash.me/$Leilabgrd Paypal email: Leila.bguard@gmail.com

You gotta suck it up buttercup. There are sugar mommas out there, but its rare

Boy if you don’t get the hell on 🙄

Welp. He tried it 😂😂

Lies, money is foreva! *cardi b voice*

Any SBs/SWs go by the name "Estella" or "Estelle"?

Send me a message because there’s a POT/SD posting in forums outting and blacklisting this particular individual. I don’t want to share the link to the forum here and out this person here on Tumblr because nudes and other face shots were posted.

Ladies, please do NOT send nudes with your face in them under any circumstances. I don’t care how much you feel you can trust your SD. Don’t do it.

yes!!!

I'm so tired of all of the bullshit

in the sugar baby tags.

All in favor of coming up with a new tag where actual sugar babies can search and only see content from people who are actually SBs? And not fan fiction stories or people stating that they’re looking for a sugar daddy etc.

How I picture it going down is that a term or phrase is created but is maybe never posted publicly like in this post or anything (it’ll be sent through a message on here). But that only actual SBs know the phrase and tag their posts as such and SBs will know to search that phrase to see only sugar baby posts. Obviously there’s no way for it to be like a top secret tag but we wouldn’t have to worry about fan fiction writers and “Tumblr sugar daddy” seekers tagging their posts with this new tag. And there may already be such a thing but I’d love to see more posts from the people I follow and connect with on here. Without having to see all of the other bs in the tags. What do y'all think? 🤔

Okay so if you’re in favor of a new tag, like/reblog this post or message me and I’ll send you a Google Doc form so you can vote for the new tag/send suggestions.

Obviously if you’re one of the people who post about seeking a Tumblr sugar daddy or spamming the “sugar baby” tag with your kik/PayPal, don’t bother. This is only for sugar babies.

Still in the process of sending out the link to actual sugar babies who reblog/like this post. Feel free to message me first or send an ask off anon and I’ll send the link to you.

Also wanted to tell y'all to make sure you hang on to the link and check back on it tomorrow January 6th @ 10p EST as the results and the new spam free sugar baby tag will be posted there. I will also go through and tag a random post with all of the options as tags and state within that post tomorrow what the chosen sugar baby tag is. It won’t be tagged under “sugar baby” like this post as I’m trying to keep the new tag spam free. I’ve had a few of the kik spammers inquire about it so I’m trying to make sure the new tag only gets in the proper hands!

yes!!!

Flirt any and everywhere !!!! I was at a Barnes and noble cafe typing up scholarship papers when this man literally sat infront of . Professional , cleaned up and def rocking some doe As he got up to order I casually got in line behind him and as he ordered an espresso with soy I just made a slight remark on how rare such a combo was ( 😭😭😭I def know espressos are common but hey I’m new to this ) He turned around , smirked and said “and what will you be having ? ” I shrugged and said a vanilla latte with soy 🔮 this man paid for my drink then turned around and started flirting . He asked what I was writing about and I explained the essay question , he was amazed that I could sit and really complete these prompts and when I remarked that college isn’t going to pay itself he handed me his phone and said “well I might …could I get your number Luna ?” We exchanged numbers and texting is lowkey lit soooooooooooo , date this Wednesday ( botanical gardens and Georgetown adventures )

Yassssss

get it get it!

Is it just me or is SA an absolute joke here in Houston?

It’s an absolute science backed joke

its is...

Show Some Appreciation

You may be a 10 and he’s a 2.  You’re in your prime, as he has aged less than gracefully.  You feel like a Victoria Secret’s Angel & the world is your runway, while he’s embarrassing to be seen in public with.  You think you’re God’s gift to this earth?  

You may feel you’re entitled to his money, gifts, wealth, etc., just don’t let him know it.

Even as your sugar daddy/sponsor/benefactor/client, he’s still human.  As we know, these men don’t want “to feel like an ATM.”  Regardless of how you may feel, try to lose the entitlement.  A man can be 100x more generous when he feels appreciated (Trust Me!).  

Little things. They don’t have to be extravagant or costly; just let the guy know that he’s appreciated (even if you don’t, at least let him believe that you appreciate his generosity). 

Showing a little appreciation goes a LONGGGGG way. 

Ooooh boy look at those white tears! Damn thats sweet! I can’t stop laughing!

I watched that last night and fucking died hHaha. They are only brave around their gang. Otherwise they are a bunch of cowards .

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I LOOOOOVE when my SD takes a business call when we’re together!!! Yes papiii make that moneyyyy babyyyyy!!!

I really hope no SB ever falls for the whole:

‘Oh, I’m in x country right now for business, but I want to support you! I have my accountant/assistant handle all my affairs, so I’ll need all your banking information which I’ll pass on to her. It might take a few days for her to get to you! I cannot do PayPal or any other means of transferring money, only bank wire transfers.’

I’ve gotten eight (I’ve counted), variations of the same thing. It’s not real, just a scam to grab your private banking information. Please stay safe.

They all read from the same wack playbook because they say the same thing every time lmao. I even called out a scammer who was using multiple accounts on the same website (his dumb ass was using the same phone number for those accounts so that’s how i knew)

When I called someone out on their bs all they could say was "sorry". Sorry?? I feel bad for all the newbie that have fallen for it

Whew! Naija was really one for the books ! 😪 It started off not so great because I didn’t know anyone and no fellow sb’s live there so I really had to do everything solo, which isn’t good in Nigeria because they’re quick to call a girl that’s by herself a prostitute 😂😂😂, which @anniedspice advised me not to go lol. So I was thinking of going back to Houston to do what I do best lol but @intzsugar crazy ass said “bih go freestyle tf, fuck what they have to say”. That’s all I needed to hope in a uber to see where I should go. So I called an uber and I blatantly asked the uber driver “where do the big boys go” this man looked at me in his rear view and said “madam I know exactly where to take u”. This man took me to the most prominent country club in Lagos. Where all the politicians, business men, and etc play golf and hang out. One problem that I had was it was members only 🤔, the uber driver literally got out his car trying to find someone to get me in. I played the whole innocent girl from America role, which worked and I got in 😜 lol. One older man invited me and introduced me to all his friends, everyone was so intrigued like I was some alien 😂😂😂😂. I talked to everyone to see who would I pick out the bunch and I happened to pick an active politician (can’t say his position bc y'all hoes scandalous ☺️). But he’s Mr.Confident that I was with most of the time in Lagos, he has a house in NYC so it should be an easy commute. But let’s just see how things go with him🤞🏽. I was thinking to myself I can’t leave Nigeria with one nigga, so I told my old grandfather friend that got me in the club the first time that I’m coming by the club(so I can just walk in). So this time I’m sitting with my old grandfather friend and his old ass friends trying to scope things out. And little that I known one of the top three real estate gurus of Nigeria was eyeing me like goat meat 😹😹😹. He tells my grandfather friend that he wants to talk to me and we went from there. I didn’t know who he was until a couple days later (he didn’t want to tell me, oddly), but he knew he had to be important when he has police following him around 24/7. His name is Mr. Hot Commodity; We spent about 3 days together and he asked me “what do I want?” So I’m guessing he’s used to this type of thing, which is great! I’m trying to get him to come to Houston so we can talk about my allowance, but as of right now he’s still a POT, until further notice. I met other guys in Nigeria as well but they’re not as important as these two until they start dishing out funds 😏. But Nigeria is a good place to find wealthy men that are generous and I’m thinking of going in December again …. we will see! ☺️🤞🏽

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