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Wit beyond measure is man's greatest treasure.

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My name is Nikki. I have pink hair and a dumb face and I'm not very cool. My blog matches my personality, sometimes it's sassy but mostly its a bit of a mess. I'm a nice person, let me snuggle you ♥♥
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Hopefully one day Lena Dunham will stop using her body shape as an excuse for why people don’t like her and start realizing it’s because she’s a terrible person.

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Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren’t inherently bad people, but they aren’t the right people for us. And as hard as it is, we have to let them go. Life is hard enough without being around people who bring you down, and as much as you care, you can’t destroy yourself for the sake of someone else. You have to make your wellbeing a priority. Whether that means breaking up with someone you care about, loving a family member from a distance, letting go of a friend, or removing yourself from a situation that feels painful — you have every right to leave and create a safer space for yourself.
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the fact that women who choose not to wear makeup are subjected to ridicule and ostacization is hellish and dystopian it’s like we’re all animals in cages poked at until we perform femininity correctly

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depression sucks because you could be half way done dancing in your underwear and making cookies and all the sudden everything is pointless and you feel so lost and worthless and have no motivation to breath and it’s like ??????? theses cookies were going to be great ??? calm down depression ?? pls ?

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aziz ansari tells rape jokes.

louis c.k. tells rape jokes and literally told rape survivors to “get the fuck over rape jokes”.

george carlin claimed that anything in the world could be funny and then proceeded to tell a story about something he saw on the news about an elderly woman getting raped. he was literally laughing so hard that he couldn’t finish his sentence. an old woman getting raped was that funny to him. 

ricky gervais told a graphic rape joke about a child trying to tell her parent that a man raped her.

i have seen literally all of these men called “feminists” and good allies because they managed to repeat what women have been saying for fucking decades so can we PLEASE have some respect for rape survivors and women in general and stop praising men for saying mediocre feminism 101 bullshit? because chances are a woman has already said it and the male comedian saying it now is going to tell another rape joke in 5 fucking seconds. 

Aziz Ansari is also antiblack.

Theres been some assault allegations against Louis CK recently too

Hi I talk about this to men all the time and they literally say nothing and stare at the floor, typical!

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I’m seeing calls for people to defend Taylor swift and again seeing Taylor swift used to degrade other women who don’t fit the respectable feminist image. As a black woman I don’t owe her shit nor does anyone else in the name of feminism.

Note: one about Katy Perry meant to say **how contracts work**

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I don’t know if people just aren’t informed or they just don’t care about all the missing women/feminicides in Mexico but about 6-7 women are killed everyday in this country. 

Mexico ranks among the world’s 20 worst countries for violence against women according to United Nations officials.

63% of Mexican women over 15 years of age have experienced some form of gender violence.

Mexico City and the State of Mexico are the states with more feminicides (1,405 in the last three years) , followed by Ciudad Juarez, Chihuahua. The National Citizen Femicide Observatory estimates six women are murdered per day & many more go missing, and a United Nations body has described the situation as an actual pandemic.

44,000 women murdered in the past three decades. 6,488 women murdered between 2013 and 2015. Only 1.6% of the cases led to sentencing.

Misogyny and corruption in Mexico prevent most cases from seeing justice since most of them get lost in Mexico’s dysfunctional justice system, where police officers can’t be bothered to probe, or claim it’s the woman’s fault, or can be bought off by criminal gangs.

Why has there not been a massive international campaign to stop the killings of women in Ciudad Juárez, State of Mexico and Mexico City? Why Mexican women have to live in fear? 

Mexican women are important and WE deserve better. 

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