i’m currently helping a dear friend edit their first-ever piece of creative fiction and I’m realizing several things:
a) writing is valuable in all its forms.
When she sent me the draft, she apologized “for having a policy brain” instead one like mine, which is far more abstract and creative. I told her that writing policy was just as important as the kind of work that I do. I, for one, could certainly never effectively write or evaluate public policy.
So be it policy, or manuals, articles, emails, fic, non fiction, poetry: your writing is valid. It’s an expression of who you are.
b) writing is really hard.
I think we all know this. If you’re a writer, you know the feeling of writers block and blank documents and abandoned WIPs. And if you’re not a writer, well, there’s probably a reason for that, yeah? I mean, I’m not an artist because it’s freaking difficult; I’ll stick to my coloring books, thanks.
My point here is that no matter how much innate talent you may posses for your craft, it’s still going to be hard. And that’s okay. We didn’t all just start spewing out perfectly characterized fics from the womb; it’s a process that takes years.
I’m giving her the same advice I tell myself every single day when I sit down to write — make them feel. show, don’t tell. use your senses. And hell, I’ve been writing since I was five years old.
I’ve talked about this before, but it’s worth repeating. creating is an act of courage. going one step further and sharing what you create requires immense valor.
Was my friend’s prose stunning? Did it knock me off of my feet? Well no, not exactly. But the important thing is that she’s trying. She’s willing to try something completely new and out of her comfort zone. And isn’t that the point? To learn new things about ourselves and others?
d) it doesn’t have to be perfect
drafts and half thoughts and abandoned WIPS are just as valid as the ones you complete. The process of creation is no different there than completed works. Saying that WIPs or abandoned ideas are “bad” or “shameful” is like saying that you never should have dated before you met your partner. Those past relationships may not have worked out, but you still learned something.