It’s just what I meant. The female body is designed with a womb, ovaries and breasts. It’s designed to be ‘able’ to give life.
I’m well aware, thank you very much, that motherhood is not the be all and end all of womanhood. It’s not our 'purpose’.
There are indeed women unable to bear children despite the presence of a womb and ovaries. And there are women who do not even want to bear children. Both these women lead full lives. I said nothing at all about them being 'effectively useless’.
You can choose to see judgement in my words if you want. That’s up to you. I know there isn’t any intended.
I’m not completely against abortion. Nowhere have I stated otherwise.
I just see it as something not to be done without careful thought.
And I’m very sorry that you see sex for pleasure as 'deviance’. (That was your word, not mine. I mentioned nothing about sex for pleasure being wrong. I think pleasure is a huge part of sex. Or else why would we be able to get the urge all year round and not simply at 'fertile’ times?)
Nor did I mention that giving birth when you fall pregnant is a 'moral obligation’. I spoke only of the responsibility.for the growing life inside a woman’s body.
You think a woman has the right to decide what happens to that growing life? Well then, she also has the responsibility to make the best decision she can. And not only for herself, but for that life as well.
I don’t claim to be any judge of what the 'best’ decision is in any case. That remains the responsibility of the woman in question. Rights never come without responsibility. That’s just how it is.
You see pregnancy and childbirth as 'punishments’?
Pregnancy and childbirth can both be very tricky. And in less fortunate parts of the world than our own, they can still be dangerous.
But that’s nature for you. None of those dangers are man made.
In times past, even with the mess, the pain and the potential dangers, pregnancy and childbirth were revered. (Have you watched The Red Tent on Netflix? It’s amazing. And it illustrates what I’m saying far better than I can.).
I’m all in favour of becoming a parent being something that we have a measure of control over. Because yes. For all the joys, it can be hard work, especially emotionally.
And it’s not something I wish on the unwilling..
Though I wholeheartedly wish it for the willing but unable.
I am in favour of safe, legal abortion being available. Because not every situation can be clearly foreseen.
And for all I know there are times when there’s going to be no easy answer. And abortion may well be the least harmful one.
But done lightly, easily. Almost like another form of contraception?
Judge me all you want. But I’ll never agree with that.