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criminal minds: a comedy trailer

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yslaurrenttt

‘To be Loved- Adele’

These lyrics are devastatingly beautiful… my heart…

I simply am not ready for Friday. This album is going to destroy me.

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gravelyhumerus

criminal minds college au movie night 🍿

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saturnphases

she-

midnightgodesslulu

I would love to be in love :/

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DELETE THIS NOW!

Lmfao

I HATE WHOEVER IS RESPONSIBLE

illbegotdamn

when she cums & you don’t stop

whitegirlsaintshit

GOD

*Giggle* This was so necessary to reblog!

femsubdenial

Yeah, but usually I’m more into methodical teasing and build-up like:

with the occasional

This just keeps getting better

chuckyface

Lmao. Bye!

needscandalinmylife

Reblog to save a life! lol

alwaysbewoke

but then sometimes you be with these chicks who act like they ain’t never going to cum but you hanging in there, with you hand and forearm cramping up just determined as fuck

and then finally all those wrist curls and pull ups pay off and you bring her house fucking house down

and you just take a bow like a fucking champion even if no one is around!

😭

Stahp

iamstellificent

Omg it got better 😂😂😂

thehighpriestofreverseracism

I HATE THIS POST 💀💀💀💀

youseebutyoudontsee

#justice

That’s right, keep it going 👍🏾

Okay I wasn’t going to reblog this until the end.

I didn’t think this post could have gotten better. I was wrong

chokesngags

wow lol

It got even better 😂

imthehomoyourmomwarnedyouabout

Omg you fuckers made it better

You people are amazing

alwaysbewoke

DAYS LATER…

your hand is still a little sore…

but was it worth it? *remembers her moaning, yelling, cumming, flopping around, turning into butter in your hand*

HELL FUCKING YEA!

trentthewiseone

Damn this is on point!!!

iamstellificent

Lol there’s more !!! 😂😂

thaunderground

might be the greatest Tumblr post ever

impinochia

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 this post gives me life

I just spit my chocolate milk fam😂😂😂

chubbybiebz

How can you not reblog this

OMG..

cutest-kitten

BAHAHAHAHAAA

alwaysbewoke

THEN ONE NIGHT SHE’S LIKE “I WANT TO TRY TOYS” SO YOU’RE LIKE

@dxilydose I think the original post took steroids

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IT GOT BETTER @lifes-a-sport

dont-change-for-people

I CANT DEAL WITH THIS 😂😂😂

i-am-the-agonist

@lokisredledger this reached a whole new level xD

lokisredledger

@i-am-the-agonist I’m dying xD

cartoon-sexx

Woah longest message i ever read

Must Reblog!!!

This is perfect

GIF by i-moved-to-kyiora-deactivated20

wheatu

My life is done. I can die happy.

lashana

I don’t care… I just need to reblog this XD

velvet74sub

Damn, that cartoon has now been wrecked, I’ll never watch it the same way again.

Thank you

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talesofawickedmind

To young women in the BDSM community:

Being young and a woman in the BDSM scene is fun.

Sure, you’ve got a flooded inbox of guys wanting to play with you and a seemingly endless fountain of opportunities. Hell, even some guys may want to buy you things! But, before you get to the fun, you really need to make sure you’re safe. It would be kind of embarrassing to be found dead in a ditch with pink fluffy handcuffs on (or worse). Here’s some advice I’d like to give to girls first starting out, possibly looking into their first BDSM relationship.

Don’t settle for the first self-proclaimed Dom to walk into your inbox!

Sure, it’s enticing. But, you really have to examine the person you’re going to give your trust too first. This is the person you’re going to give your control over to (temporarily) and you have to be sure that they’re 1) trustworthy 2) not trying to manipulate you just for sex and 3) a good person. Because at the end of the day, a BDSM dynamic is more of a relationship than just sex.
Someone may come into your inbox, say that they’re compatible with your kinks and want to make your fantasies true, but you have to look at it rationally. Don’t let your hormones take over your decision.
You’re young. You have so much time to find a good dynamic/relationship, don’t rush into it. But also, dip your toes in the water and find out what you like!

Always be on the lookout for the red flags.

If you feel that weird uncertain feeling in your gut, say bye, Felicia!
Here are some common ones.
Young Doms tend to have more red flags as they’re more inexperienced (not always, this is a generalization).
If they don’t ask for your ID before playing with them, that could also be a red flag. As a 19-year-old with babyface, every good Dom I’ve had has asked for it in advance. Consider it a green flag if they do.
If they aren’t concerned about your safety as a young woman, that’s a serious red flag.

Your safety comes before EVERYTHING.

Always make sure to text at least one friend the address of where you’re going to be going beforehand.
Meet up before playing just for a coffee date. If they’re not willing to go on a lil date with you beforehand and just want to play right away, get the hell out of there! Make sure it’s in a public space. Never meet up with someone directly at their house.
Check that they’re STD free and/or use the correct protection.
Always play with a safe word.
Optional: bring pepper spray or a knife with you, just in case.
Talk with them at least a week in advance to playing. If they aren’t willing to put in that effort, drop ‘em.
Make sure they know and respect your limits.
Have a friend call you 30 minutes into your first play-date. If you’re in trouble, pretend that they’re your sibling and you have to go help. (This has helped me before, I was roofied without my knowledge and was uncomfortable with the guy so when my friend called me it was a saving grace. It wasn’t 30 minutes after until I was driving when it kicked in. Yikes.)

And lastly, make sure it’s the right person.

Your first BDSM dynamic is special! Hell, every dynamic is special. Make sure you’re not just looking to get spanked and slapped around by anyone, make sure you have the right Dom.
There are sooooo many girls who have rushed into BDSM that have found themselves in the lap of an abuser. Make sure you’re in the lap of a caring person who also shares your kinks and is willing to do them with you safely!

I probably sound like your mom lecturing you but, as a 19-year-old girl, these are the things I’d wish I would have listened to. And remember, you can always say no. Use it like it’s your goddamn superpower.

Feel free to put your own advice below to the post to help out!