The Army is weird as hell because you're an adult who has to let another adult come in your room and check for dust on top of your shelves
One time I, an adult, got yelled and screamed at by another adult because there was trash in my trash can, and I just....let that happen
A guy whose whole family left him by the team he was 25 and who has literally no skills beyond being sort of okay at shooting a rifle will try to tell you that you're a morally and ethically inferior human being because you can't do the most push-ups. You will believe him.
About once a month I had to stand very still in the hallway outside of my room while a guy went in my room and poked around through my stuff and would yell at me if my clothes were hung up wrong or if I'd left my cigarettes on my desk. I was a 21-year-old grown woman.