It’s not that you have issues…… it’s that you have a tendency to continue using instincts you picked up in childhood that are no longer useful to you on your journey towards achieving openness and intimacy and reliability in your personal relationships w others. It’s not that you’re defective or difficult or incapable it’s just that what you learned to do to save yourself from the experience of abandonment or rejection or ridicule or failure is not helpful here anymore and you need to start thinking creatively and collaborating on better ways to cope with that instrinsic fear that you are not correct, that you are faking, that you will be found out and left, whatever it is
Just a gif set of Sebastian Stan smiling 🫠
sending so much love to everyone who feels like they’re never chosen as the best friend, as the partner, as the favorite. sending love to all of you who have been treated and felt like second best. sending love to all of you who have felt rejected and unwanted. to all of you who have had to try really hard to fit in because you felt like you never will.
you are so loved. you will be seen and heard by the right people. you can trust that you are valuable and not defined by other people’s perceptions of you. if someone doesn’t see your worth, it doesn’t mean it isn’t there.
For everyone who needs to hear this today.
If someone doesn’t see your worth, it doesn’t mean it isn’t there.
unstoppable force (desire to write) vs immovable object (tired)
Girls that use “<3” want their faces buried in their sheets as they’re being railed
<3!!!!!!!!!!!!
<3
microdosing on catharsis by watching a fictional character or persona i relate to have an emotional breakdown until my chest starts to ache from the amount i've repressed
first 5 faceless emojis are how your summers gonna go
Magnus Archives fan I see
THIS IS SO FUNNY I'M SORRY
1 thing about me I'm gonna be a sweetie
Can I hear a second thing about you
2 thing about me I'm a nasty sicko man
Sucks that "sleeping together" refers to sex. Sometimes a fella just wants to snooze with a pal.
Reblog if you wanna snooze with a pal
Rock on Munson
some fandom needs to hear this. but i just cANt remember which one ……
Finally someone is saying it
Every fandom needs to hear this.
A pedestal is a tiny constrained place to stand in. Why would anyone want to be there?
Putting someone on a pedestal is just as dehumanizing as treating them like they’re beneath you. In both cases, you’re not seeing them as equals.
Yeah you're right. It WOULD be pretty fucked up if you were a swan but you were raised by ducks and you grew up never seeing another swan or even knowing that such a thing as a swan even existed so you just thought you were a duck with something super wrong with it.
nice post guys
in my slut era (I want to lace my fingers with yours and make little circles on the back of your hand with my thumb).
the duality of subs