Hey I’m just curious, did you meet your hubby within the gainer/encourager scene? Or did you guys meet outside it and find you had this mutual kink? Seems so impossible to make connections with guys in this community sometimes, but you’re definitely an inspiring case :)
I messaged him on FB 😁 he was suggested as a friend and I thought he was cute 🤷🏻♂️ asked him out for coffee and now we’re married...5 years.
I “came out of the fridge” (as I coined it a few years ago) to home bout two three months after meeting, I think before we were even officially dating....
I gave him my screename and told him some of the terms and let him research it himself, he was a little overwhelmed with the amount of stuff he found but was ultimately cool with it...then after awhile of talking n trying and experimenting, he jumped right in.
