Oh look there goes my sanity

Hey guys! Hope everyone has had a good Christmas/Holidays so far and that things are looking good going into New year’s!

I got a new tablet for Christmas so thought now would be a good time to do an icon giveaway!

The winner will get an icon of their choice similar to the examples shown. To enter you just have to like and reblog this post, a follow would be appreciated and means you’ll see more of my art in the future if you like it, and you’ll see any more giveaways I do in the future!

The giveaway ends Jan 1st 9PM GMT so enter now if you want a chance to win a new icon for the New year!

And if you can’t wait that long or don’t want to leave things up to chances, my commissions are currently open, so if you wanted to get an icon for yourself or a friend, or something else entirely, check out my commission info or send me a message here or on twitter!

Good luck everyone!

Get yourself a free new icon with my new years icon giveaway!!!

does anyone ever do the opposite of dissociate?? where youre just suddenly and uncomfortably aware of your situation and reality 

more to the point why do i get that feeling when im sitting on top of my kitchen table watching a velveeta mac and cheese pack spin in the microwave for three and a half minutes and im just like I Exist I Am Here And Theres Nothing I Can Do About It 

okay this one wins, everyone can stop reblogging this now 

Here it is: Best stuff first

Extremely handy if you follow a lot of people and hate missing anything good. 

Best Stuff First moves the best stuff on your dashboard—mhm!—right up to the top. 

It’s rolling out this week on iOS and Android, and comes with this Help Center article.  

Thanks! ✌️

I don’t have the option to turn it off yet, but chances are good that my dash is still affected. Chances are good that y'all have been affected. Whatever you do, keep checking your settings tab for the ability to TURN THIS OFF. Because we creators are gonna suffer from this.

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There’s a chance that y'all might not have gotten this option yet, but i finally did. For the sake of all creators out there, check your general settings and look for this option. If you have it, TURN IT OFF. Don’t let some algorithm dictate what you see.

Don’t just like this. It needs to be spread so people know. Not only will your feed be out of chronological order, but creators who aren’t hella popular are suffering lack of exposure because of this. This is the one thing i WILL pressure to reblog.

This was already in effect on my app. Deactivated it IMMEDIATELY, what a horrible option to have!!

I had to turn this off on my app! Do it, don’t let an algorithm fuck up new artists’ chances of exposure! I hate that all social media is becoming this.

When the thirst is mutual >

When the honesty is mutual >

When the effort it mutual >

When the trust is mutual >

When the respect is mutual >

When the humor is mutual >

When the love is mutual >

When the head is mutual >

When the VISION is mutual >

When the loyalty is mutual >

When the money is mutual >

When the vibe is mutual >

I respect all of y'all for this

When the bond is mutual >

Relationships are scary and complicated ONLY when you start thinking of your partner as some kind of adversary. 

You know how to stop being scared of relationships? Remember that it’s got a goddamn buddy system *built in*. That’s all a relationship IS: “Let’s approach life with the buddy system.”

Check on your buddy. Make sure your buddy doesn’t forget their lunch box on the schoolbus. Hold hands with your buddy so you don’t get lost. If your buddy wants to look at the monkey cage, look at the goddamn monkey cage with them. If you are the one looking at the monkey cage, ask your buddy what they want to do next, and when they want to feed the giraffe, help them find a quarter for the little food dispenser. Be a good buddy, and if your buddy isn’t a good one too, tell the teacher and ask for a new one.

This isn’t fucking rocket science, people. 

I have reblogged this before. I will reblog it again. And it’s not just romantic relationships: it’s family members and friends as well.

This kind of woke my ass up because of the amount of times I’ve had a buddy who didn’t check on me, didn’t want me to check on them, but didn’t want me to leave.

Someone once said to me, “I hope the pain eases soon.” It struck me as the purest blessing that had ever been offered over my head - I hope the pain eases soon. It’s so gentle, so kind, so hopeful. So to everyone who’s hurting: I see how hard you’re trying, and I hope your pain will ease soon.

Long Distance Relationships: Expectation VS. Reality.

@bloodberrytrap

This is for all you ladies out there.

the struggle is real

I have a trans man story about this.

Since I’m pre-t I still have my period but since I’m socially out as trans I use men’s bathrooms. One time at the college the family bathroom was taken and so I went into the men’s room to do my business. I tried opening the little pad as quietly as I could manage, but the rustling and ripping sound still happened. I froze in silence because I didn’t know if the other guy in the men’s room heard it or not.

Then after a little bit of silence I hear…

“Who has a bag of chips?”

And in a panic I just whisper back to him “I’m not sharing.”

Then I hear a huff before he finished his business and left.

REBLOGGING FOR THE ABOVE

i understand when ur 13 and u just realized u have a mental illness and ur so relieved to know there are other ppl going thru the same thing as u, its easy to slip into the idea that your newly labeled thoughts and behaviors are normal and okay.

they are not. suicidal thoughts arent normal. violent impulses arent normal. delusions and hallucinations arent normal.

now that you have a name for this behavior you need to seek help. dont let tumblr trick you into thinking unhealthy coping mechanisms are the only ways to deal with your mental illness. dont let it fester, dont let it worsen. seek as much help as you can. actively try to better yourself.

Insp

he is so proud of himself and so am I

why does genji’s sword have a fucking light switch on it 

it turns on the dragons 

PROFESSOR JIGGLY NO