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Pitiful destiny, point your finger at me

@bluekayedarchive / bluekayedarchive.tumblr.com

☸ Kaija │ 21 │ She/Her │ ISTJ │ Finland │ ♑ ☸
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(((just making a long overdue post that I am not in fact dead, I just don’t really give a shit about tumblr anymore? Yall feel me I’m sure.

Idk, if any mutuals(whomst to I never really talked to even though I wanted to (if we are/were mutuals I’m talking about you too llmao,)) still want to see what I’m up to, I still use this same username on Instagram and Twitter (tho I tweet like, 95% in finnish so,,,), just letting yall know. Have a good life yall, mine got like 4534x better since leaving this godforsaken site. xoxo )))

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i feel like this needs to be said: you literally can’t ask or expect anyone to drop everything for you and operate under your terms at all times. you can’t expect people to always be there for you and always choose you in any given ultimatum. sacrifice cannot be expected or asked for, it has to be freely given. and just because someone loves you, that doesn’t mean everything they do will be done with you in mind. if you have a problem with that, then you are the problem.

the amount of people in the tags saying this is ignorant and condescending towards mentally ill people is honestly astounding. as a mentally ill person, i recognize being mentally ill is not an excuse to be abusive; and yes, that’s exactly what this is. it’s abusive to expect other people to dedicate their lives to you.

Its something we gotta admit. And work away from. We have to see it to fix it. Even if it hurts to acknowledge.

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9am saturday morning: “i’ve got the whole day, i’m gonna get so much done”

1pm saturday afternoon: still in my pajamas, on my 4th cup of coffee, deep in thought about generic subversion, censorship, and post-colonialism in 2000 animated gay romance “the road to el dorado”

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