A Heartfelt Goodbye
Well, that's it guys! It's an end of an era! Helping with the Distance will no longer be active from this day forward! We (the admins) have discussed this deeply, and this isn't a decision we have taken lightly, but we really do feel as though it's for the best - not just for us, but for the followers too. The reason for this is because we haven't been able to dedicate the time or energy that we used to, and we felt as though we were letting you down, and aren't in a position to get the blog back to it's old standards, and we'd rather let it rest than watch it go into ruin. This isn't because we love you any less, and it isn't because we lost our love of helping people, it's just a case of life taking us all in different directions. I speak for us al, past and present admins that we have loved being a part of this blog, and we're so glad to have helped so many people and seen so many sucessful LDRs, and people closing the distance. On a personal level, we've all made friends out of this blog, and it's been a pleasure to be here. For those of you who are wondering where you can go now for guidance and advice, you can find ex-HwtD admin, the wonderful and amazing Amber, at http://amberanswers.tumblr.com - she will help :) I've asked the admins to write a small little thing for this goodbye post: I am truly sad to see it go but the blog has had a great run! We've just out grown of the blog and I think this is a bittersweet moment where it's sad to leave, I've met some amazing ppl, admins and followers, it always sad to say goodbye we all know that too well, but it's also really exciting to see how much we've all grown and know that we have only better things to come! Wishing everyone love and happiness! - Sakura It is amazing to me just how far, the admins and followers, have grown during the course of this blog. Our admins have closed the distance, gotten engaged, and grown to happy and wonderful times in their life. We have been there through the hard times and the happy times. Just myself I closed the distance, moved into an apartment, and grown immensely into the person I an.today. This blog has made me a confident and stronger women. The overwhelming support we all had for eachother is what I am going to miss the most. Hang in there everyone, follow your heart, and never stop loving and supporting each other. Thats ultimately what this blog was all about, after all :) Love always, Emily Although I was an admin for a very short time, I kept my eyes on this blog from way before. It's been an illuminating journey to say the least, and I learned many things along the way and was advised just as much as I gave advice. Thank you all for making this blog incredible, without our vast number of followers this blog wouldn't be where it is. Although it is very hard to say goodbye, this blog will still be here for others to look on and read up, should they ever need it :) - Susmita This blog was a lot of help to me before I became an admin, and becoming an admin was one of the most rewarding things that has happened to me (so far xD). I've poured my heart and soul into this blog, and I am sad to see it go, like I said, it wasn't a decision that was taken lightly. Months of thought went into it for me. As Sakura and Emily have both said, it's lovely to see how much everyone has grown. When I joined this blog, everyone was in an LDR, and now none of us are (apart from Susmita, whose LDR is half on half off due to college etc). I mean, Sakura is engaged!!!! So do not lose hope! We've all matured so nicely, and grown into fine young women even if I do say so myself :P I think running this blog has been a huge part of who we've developed into... and we've recieved a lot of support from our followers in return from the support we've given them. We've also built up quite a support network ourselves within the admins, I mean we don't talk as much as we used to because of time differences and life getting in the way, but we all know that if one of us needed it, the others would be there for us in our hour of need :) Thank you to each and every follower for your support and understanding, and a huge and special thank you to the other admins here, and past admins (you know who you are if you're reading this) for being such amazing ladies and having me be a part of this :) Stay strong everyone, and remember, distance will only get between you if you let it! Well, that's me, signing off for the last time! ~Rachael