mary! how are you? sorry to bother you but i need to talk about something with someone and for some reason i feel comfortable with you
so i've been dating this guy for like 8-9 months now, he's a great guy, very funny, interesting and so on but he did something that annoyed me and i think i'm done with this situationship. one day he said he was waiting for me to ask him to be my bf, another day when i asked him he said he wanted to say yes but that i should ask him other time (fair enough, we were going through an eventful news and we were distracted by that) and then one day he said he doesn't see me as his gf. when i confronted him about this he explained that he wants me in his life, that he wants more with me but he wants to take it slow so he can do things right. i swear i felt like he was fooling around with me
the other thing is that i suspect he still has feelings for his ex. they broke up years ago but are still good friends but after some time i realized that she's his weakness, a very important person in his life, she gets along with his family and i saw a few things he wrote last year that and a dream he had recently that makes me believe he still has feelings for her
honestly at this point i'm done with this shit going on. yesterday i realized that i don't love him and haven't done so for a month now. i care about him but after what i wrote in the first paragraph i think everything with him is bullshit. i don't know what to do mary, never been through such a thing before :(