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When hungry, bang.

@sonder-seoul / sonder-seoul.tumblr.com

Everything—including the kitchen sink...but mostly kdramas.
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gaycommunist

actually, growing up is feeling like i turned sixteen two days ago. i’ve been eighteen for years. fifteen year olds seem so young. wasn’t i fifteen just a few weeks ago? all my friends and i are still twelve. i’m closer to thirty than to being a baby. i never got to be a kid. i never grew past eight. i can’t talk to my mom. i want to sit in her lap forever. i want to decide everything for myself. i need someone to tell me exactly what to do. the week is going by so slow. an entire year has passed.

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finishing a book and having to go back to ur life is one of the worst feelings

literally what do i do w myself i wanna live in them

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MONICA AND CHANDLER | season 1 vs. 10

“I don’t even have one, how come they get two?”
“I’ll tell you what. When we’re forty, if neither of us are married, what do you say you and I get together and have one?”
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minhyowon

We’re 39 years old. We met when we were 18. Nothing has changed even though we’re almost 40.

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lovecompass

Emily Henry, People We Meet on Vacation

[Text ID: He nods. “I know. You asked me who I was, and—it was like the answer came out of nowhere. Sometimes it feels like I didn’t even exist before that. Like you invented me.” /End ID]
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Finished the Unhoneymooners and had things to say that I couldn’t just put in the tags. Loved this book up until exactly page 299 (yes, was very frustrated so I remembered the exact page). Ami accusing her twin sister of being a psycho because she didn’t want to believe her husband was a cheater?? Ethan (1) telling Olive to keep the fact that her sister’s husband is a piece of shit person from said sister, (2) saying Olive was jealous of Ami’s life, (3) trying to convince her into believing sleazy Dane didn’t hit on her even though he knows exactly whom his brother is (just nasty). And yet Olive just takes all of this because she’s loyal to a fault?? Then she takes back Ethan after he breaks up with her after he chose his brother over her??? And the “apology” was so corny. *Tomatoes, tomatoes* 🍅🍅 Something’s are just irredeemable and those things were imo. And it pained me too because up until that pivot, the book was so good? Dammit.

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if i had a nickel for every time a cutesy booktok romance novel i read today had an awkward female protagonist named olive that has (or almost has) a phd in biology and a tall dark-haired love interest i'd have two nickels but the fact that it happened twice

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thinking about how orpheus turning to look back at eurydice isn’t a sign of mortal frailness but a sign of love

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“Eurydice, dying now a second time, uttered no complaint against her husband. What was there to complain of, but that she had been loved?” ― Ovid, Metamorphoses

This is true no matter the version you’re reading.

1. Eurydice trips and Orpheus turns to help her because he loves her.

2. Orpheus cannot hear Eurydice behind him, and fearing that he’s been tricked, turns to make sure she’s there.

3. Orpheus makes it out of the Underworld, and so full of love and excitement to be with Eurydice, turns to embrace her, forgetting that they both need to be out of the Underworld.

No matter what happens in the story, Orpheus loses Eurydice because his love for her compels him to look.

Orpheus, I can forgive you, then, There’s not a soul alive who wouldn’t have looked back

The Descent, by Tyler King

Don’t forget Gluck’s opera, where Eurydice doesn’t know Orpheus is forbidden to look back, Orpheus is also forbidden to tell her, she assumes he must not love her anymore, and Orpheus finally looks back to reassure her of his love because he can’t bear her anguish.

In that version in particular, but possibly in all retellings, a part of us wants Orpheus to look back, because his failure proves his love.

What gets me is that Orpheus’s love for  Eurydice is the reason why he descended after her in the first place… but its also the reason he failed. Had he loved her a little less they would have made it out. Had he loved her a little less and he never would have gone down after her at all.

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[The Love Hypothesis, by: Ali Hazelwood, aesthetic]

"carry yourself with the confidence of a mediocre white man."

"I wish you could see yourself the way I see you."

"You can fall in love: someone will catch you."

"You kiss him and next thing you know he's saving your ass and he's buying you scones and calling you a smart-ass in a weirdly affectionate tone"

"She would have loved to run to the edge of campus and scream into the void until modern civilization collapsed, but that wasn’t exactly a pressing matter."

"God, she had forced a married man, a father, to kiss her. Now people thought that he was having an affair. His wife was probably crying into her pillow. His kids would grow up with horrible daddy issues and become serial killers."

"his calm acceptance of her anxiety relaxed her"

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