Hey, so I’m only updating about this for posterity/in case I ever come back here for some goofy stuff but anyone who has followed me on Instagram or Twitter or tiktok knows that my husband, Rob, passed away in December after a long and brave cancer journey. We got married in October when he started home hospice and our wedding was subsequently featured in Vogue after it went viral on Tiktok and Insta. My longtime followers know that I started dating Rob back in 2014 and that my column, Accidental Virgin, was largely about me navigating our relationship (which was my first). Since I was on tumblr a ton back then, a lot of our early days were documented On Here.
Rob and I had nearly 9 years together. Our relationship wasn’t perfect, no relationship is, but we loved each other deeply and I’m grateful that we had the time together to travel the world, have adventures around NYC, and just loaf around the house cooking and watching The Sopranos. I miss him everyday and always will. Luckily we family planned in such a way that I can still have our kid when I’m ready.
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