"Teach boys not to fucking rape" yes because teaching people not to fucking murder and steal has worked so well.
you’re way off point, teaching young boys about boundaries, consent and imbuing them with an innate respect for women as people and not prizes and objects they are entitled to DOES help stop them becoming rapists.
most people DO NOT commit murder, so that’s a bad comparison. don’t EVER compare rape to theft. it is really offensive to compare victims of sexual violence to property!
just because FCKH8 is flawed doesn’t mean the messages, slogans they use are completely wrong. don’t undermine the important impact of educating youth (especially boys) on “how not to rape” just because FCKH8 uses the phrase in an badly thought out and problematic video.
it is contributing to victim blaming and the lack of action to tackle the root issues even if you don’t mean to when you dismiss important strategies, just because an organization you don’t like associated with it.
FCKH8’s practices are so damaging and worrying exactly BECAUSE on a lot of issues they are correct or mean well. because their messages and impact have value that is less effective than it could be due to their own bad practices. or it contributes to the marginalization of intersecting groups they claim to be allied with even though they're selling themselves on being "inclusive").