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My thoughts on love and tangerines//

Musings from Anna Fusco

John Singer Sargent (1856-1925, American) ~ Study of a Seated Man, 1895

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youd think id get used to being human after all this time

The Midwestern Princess

i have to PRETEND i have to DAYDREAM or i will KILL MYSELF

Same spot different year // Instagram / Website

i think a very hard lesson for me in my twenties was to stop ruminating on one mistake or conflict as the catalyst to destroy a relationship i would look for that one moment that “ruined” a relationship with someone and obsess over how i would fix it how if i had just acted perfectly this person would still be there. the truth is that if one mistake destroys your relationship with someone that relationship is not built on solid ground. a loving partnership (of any kind) is built on trust and commitment and there is room for conflict. a healthy partnership sees conflict and works to resolve it - yes, there will be difficult conversations but humans make mistakes it is literally impossible to act like a perfect person all the time and you will kill yourself trying and the right people will not run away at conflict - they will work through it with you. people who run at the first sign of conflict or a mistake are oftentimes not ready for true intimacy and are looking for an easy out. even if you had done everything “right” something else would have made them not want to stay because the right people stay. the healthy love stays

Beauty north germany with wine and the sea

we used to watch skam clips on google drive. we used to be a society

someone somewhere probably already drew this but here's the centaur kiss anyway

Horniness is not intrinsically less pure than any other human motivation

"He only made this art because he was horny!" ...Yeah, and? You only made a sandwich because you were hungry.