This blog is now closed.
I will not be answering anymore questions. This blog now serves as an archive. I’m so sorry.
Anonymous asked:
Where are you guys?
(OOC: that is a very good question! I’m actually not too terribly interested in the Once fandom anymore. While I still love Swan Queen, admittedly this blog has decreased in activity. For now I will put the blog on hiatus. I am thinking of putting the blog up for adoption and giving it to someone who is more able to be an active Emma and Regina. Not to say I don’t love this blog and love all my followers, I am just really struggling not only with my own issues, but with apathy towards the Once show. However, in order to do that, I will need applicants.
If you wish to apply to be Emma and Regina, you can contact me at @thegaypanic. I will post what I require of applicants under the read more.
I have but she doesn't help. I am in college and all by myself due to foster care and I....
Regina: You what, dear?
Emma: Yeah the system can mess up sometimes.
So lately I have been feeling not depressed but not exactly happy either. I mean I can laugh and be happy around others but once I am alone I feel so empty. I just don't know what to do anymore
Regina: Have you spoken to someone about this? I’m glad to hear you aren’t depressed anymore, but emptiness isn’t the end goal.
Emma: Yeah, do you talk to a therapist or someone? Maybe you can find some self help tips.
Anonymous asked:
may I ask for a hug? I just really want one, i'm nervous about performing a song about lesbians for the school talent show and moving back with my emotionally abusive parents in six months so i just kind of feel like crap and i wish i had a mom to hug me :(
Regina: We’ll hug you, dear.
Emma: I’m sure you’re going to rock the talent show!
Regina: I’m sorry you feel like crap.
Anonymous asked:
I'm 2 weeks clean from cutting today and i just want to thank you guys for keeping me strong, even though you have no idea who i am, you're both there for me even through my darkest times and whether you like it or not you're a part of my life and i love you
Regina: I’m so proud of you, dear. That’s so amazing.
Emma: Alright@ That’s awesome! You should celebrate!
Anonymous asked:
hey, do you have any advice for those who self harm?
Regina: Take it one step at a time dear. Did you hurt yourself today? Did you think about hurting yourself and didn’t? Did you ever resist, no matter the circumstance? Celebrate those small moments. Even if you mess up the next day or later that same day, celebrate because I am so proud of you for going as long as you did.
Emma: If you’re hurting yourself in a dangerous way like cutting, maybe confide in someone you trust and ask them to throw away the things you use to hurt yourself with. That way you don’t have access to them so you’ll be safer. Ultimately, trying to stop self harming is the key to success.
Regina: I’ve heard some people use rubber bands and snap them on their wrist when they want to stop self harming. That way they still feel the pain, but it doesn’t hurt them or scar them. Maybe you can try something like that. And if you ever find that you’ve gone too far and are seriously hurt, please tell someone. Let someone take care of you. Stay safe, dear.
Anonymous asked:
there's this girl, she's gorgeous, but here's the things, we're both friends, and bi, but idk how to tell her that I have feeling for her. how do I tell her I have feelings for her without messing up our friendship?
Regina: Just be honest with her. Tell her you don’t want your friendship to end because of this. Tell her you want to be her friend regardless of this.
Emma: But tell her that you also wouldn’t be opposed to more. Tell her the ball’s in her court. She chooses the next step, no pressure from you.
Anonymous asked:
Hey there. I came to Rio de Janeiro with my grandma to see her sister, and I love going out with my grandma, but I'm bored out of my mind. I already played all the games I brought, and the rain won't stop so we can't go to ghe beach. Help?
Regina: Have you ever tried writing before, dear? You could create your own story.
Emma: Yeah. Sometimes I like to make up little scripts for people. It’s fun.
Anonymous asked:
Hello my lovelies. I've run into a big of a problem. I don't know what my sexual orientation is. Freshman year of college I went in with no experience of a boyfriend and through the course of the year, had two experiences each with a boy and a girl. If I am a lesbian or bi, I will be disowned by my parents. We were watching The Fosters one day and my mom said that I better not be a lesbian because it would be too stressful on her. What do I do?
Regina: Ultimately, dear, you can only be who you are.
Emma: Yeah, and even if you’re a lesbian or bisexual or whatever, your mom being stressed has nothing to do with that.
Regina: I’m sorry your mother would be stressed, but ultimately you have to do what’s best for you. If that would be hiding your sexuality from your parents, that’s okay. You don’t have to act on your feelings if you don’t want to. You don’t have to tell anyone your sexuality if you don’t want to. However, dear, it is my recommendation that you don’t pretend to be anything you are not. At least not to yourself.
Emma: Yeah, if you have feelings, don’t repress them. You don’t have to tell your parents about your sexuality, but don’t hide it from yourself.
Anonymous asked:
hi moms
Regina: Hello, dear.
Emma: Hi!
Anonymous asked:
IT'S THE ANON WITH LOUSY SELF-ESTEEM AND A DATE. JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU HOW IT WENT: WE WATCHED CAROL. WE KISSED. IT WAS GLORIOUS. SHE'S THE CUTEST THING ON EARTH. THANKS.
Emma: Alright rock on!
Regina: I'm glad things worked out for you, dear.
Anonymous asked:
Hi me again! I just meant that my girlfriend tries to be supportive but she always ends up crying and saying she wishes I was just happy with myself whenever we talk about me transitioning. I know she means well but.. It sounds bad to me. I will try talking to her again, maybe have her explain what she means. Thank you for the advice. -AL (To OOC: Depending on how that talk goes I'll take you up on the offer of talking. Thank you
Regina: Of course, dear. What matters most is that you're comfortable with yourself, in all ways.
Emma: Yeah, and sometimes that's hard for other people to be comfortable with. You just have to keep fighting for you.
Anonymous asked:
Okay I need an outsiders perspective and you guys give great advice on stuff. Anyway um.. I'm having trouble with my gender. Usually people who are trans know that they were born the wrong gender, for me? Not so much. I'm so uncomfortable in my body as a girl and on most days I feel like it would make life so much easier to be a boy... I've talked to my gf about this and she says she's okay with it but I know she feels indifferent. I hate being a girl, but I don't want to fully transition.. -AL
Regina: You don't have to transition fully or at all. Your gender is just as valid whether you physically transition or not.
Emma: Now did you mean your girlfriend is indifferent or your girlfriend thinks differently? Maybe you can talk to her some more, try to really help her understand that this is important to you… well, it is you.
(OOC: hey! I'm actually AFAB trans myself. If you want you can message me at my main blog @swanqueensweaters anytime, and I'll be happy to talk with you.)
Anonymous asked:
So, I have a horrible self-esteem. I'm fat, my hair is ugly well I'm ugly. But this girl somehow likes me. She's a friend of my friend's and we've been texting each other for a while now. she asked me to meet her at the cinema tomorrow, I'm really really nervous and I've already backed down on her two times and there's no chance I can cancel again. I'm very anxious about it and I don't know what to do cause I'm really ugly and I'm afraid once she realises that it will be all awkward and weird
Regina: She doesn't think you're ugly, and neither do I.
Emma: Yeah, this girl likes you for you. It's cheesy, but be yourself.
Anonymous asked:
Every time I look in the mirror I want to scream. I hate everything I see, head to toe. It's gross to me. I feel like such a disgusting person. I don't even know why. It burns in a way. Ya know? Like it hurts so bad that I can't help it.
Regina: You are beautiful, dear. The mirror is lying to you.
Emma: Yeah, you're awesome. Is there anyone you can talk to about your body insecurity? Like a counselor or something?
Regina: I would hate to see someone so beautiful get so hurt by the lies that the mirror tells them.
Hi I just started a similar blog to yours because I saw how helpful y'all were Hope it doesn't count as stealing But how did you get so tumblr-famous If that's a word...
Emma: Whoa... this is like looking in an alternate universe.
Regina: Tumblr famous?
Emma: I guess part of it is time. We’ve been on this blog for over a year now.
Regina: Just be patient, dear.