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Holy Word: Depression

@shandrethlar / shandrethlar.tumblr.com

29 / F / Canada Mostly shitposting, occasional NSFW
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depsidase

This is why I get so tired about “whose a real women” and “are transgender people real” and the like because it’s so irrelevant. We have group or people that have an insane suicide rate and we have a solution that reduces that by an insane amount.

No matter how you slice it no theoretical reason nor gender rhetoric can change the gender affirming care is improving more lives than it’ll ever hurt

i think this belongs here too

all the statistics are massively in favor of gender affirming care no matter how you slice it.

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rowanjasper

Adding to that last one bc that statistic made me feel nervous post top surgery- post surgical depression is an extremely common response to ALL SURGERY. You feeling really bad in the weeks after gender affirming care does NOT mean you made a mistake or even that you're part of the regret statistic. Those knee surgery and back surgery folks also got it too!!

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foxsnails

Last weekend I attended a fish-themed art market in Plymouth where I tested out some polymer clay stuff, it was a hit! Keep your eyes peeled, I may make some more stuff like this for my shop!

official fish post

Using a POSCA marker as a rolling pin is lawful chaotic

we do what we can in these trying times

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mipeltaja

I am honestly floored. I never thought I'd see these guys do anything ever again.

They're only hanging around the draenei heritage gathering, but at least there's new gossip text! Also, not that it wasn't already clear that they're inseparable, but Asric insisting on coming with Jadaar to freaking Exodar, and Jadaar negotiating with the peacekeepers to actually allow Asric into freaking Exodar is on a whole other level.

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wait you understand that kinks are ok because they're fantasies that make you happy right? you all get that you don't need to have trauma for your kinks to be okay? right? like none of you think i witnessed a tragic accident on the pool toy assembly line right?

like "some people work through their personal issues with kink" was a good first step for some of the class that were struggling but i think now we're ready for "things that don't hurt anyone and make people happy are okay even if you personally think it's icky"

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curlicuecal

BECAUSE ROUGE THE BAT DRAWN AS WIDE AS SHE IS TALL WITH TITS TO MATCH KILLED MY GRANDMA, OKAY?

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angel-advise

*notices my ice cream has more sprinkles than yours* how's it feel to be a sprinklet? idiot. dumbass *trips and drops my ice cream* can i have a lick of yours if you say no i'll cry

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guys aren't comically getting their red heart covered boxers exposed after they get their pants pulled down anymore. Due to wokeness

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dredsina

Me & the other drivers were really impressed when you swerved around all of us at high speeds & got to the red light before anyone else

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It's easy to think you'd be able to do something when you know that you'd never have to actually do it.

Here's the link to the article for anyone interested.

I have a couple of comments about this. In no particular order, and some I would love to say to him, others I would love to say to his supporters and people who think "Yeah! He showed those lazy good-for-nothings!".

Here are some facts if you didn't read it

  • He had to "quit" being homeless 10 months in because of his health. During the entire experiment, he says he was going to the doctor's often.
  • He went into this, like the title says, on purpose (meaning with intention and energy and his feet hitting the ground running)
  • He only made it to $64,000 - which is still an impressive amount to make in 10 months starting from zero, yes, but also not even a tenth of he claimed he would do

So here are some things I want to say about that.

  1. Do you realize how fucking lucky you are? For so many parts of this, luck was a part of this. Can you imagine if, instead of finding the nice human that let you sleep in their RV, you found the not-so-nice human that mugged you or stole the little you had gotten?
  2. You were able to go to the doctor? Often? Throughout the entire experiment? How? Did you have health insurance? How were you paying for that if you were homeless and "broke"? Did you pay for the doctor out of pocket? Was this in America? (I seriously didn't check what country he was doing this in).
  3. The fucking privilege of just being able to quit? I'm like completely fucking gobsmacked I'm so angry about that. Knowing you have a fucking safety net to fall out of your "experiment" onto makes it so much easier to try shit that might not pan out. If it's do or die, and you know this is your entire life, and your longterm is bleak as fucking shit, you're not going to be a quirky little risk taking entrepreneur, you're going to find a job with better stability.
  4. I will bet my left shoe that if he needed a ride to a doctor or needed something super desperate, he was able to call someone up and get help on the DL. whether he did or not, people can argue about, but undoubtedly he could have.
  5. You *started* this with energy and purpose. Like an athlete waiting at a starting line for a gun to go off. People that are actually in poverty have been run ragged already, can barely force themselves forward, have no energy or gusto left.
  6. This also means you started off with pretty decent mental health. That's a privilege in and of itself. Imagine if your skull's primary organ didn't function as well as it was supposed to? What if you needed medication that would help you function like a normal human being, and you didn't have access to it? What if your mental health had taken a much steeper dive than it probably did? (Which, let's face it, if you didn't have a way out of this, the hopelessness of everything probably would have fucked you up a bit).
  7. Think about how hard this was on your physical health after 10 months, and now imagine you can't quit. There is no safety net or life to go back to. Imagine being however old you are, and you can't afford to go to the doctor, and you can't afford to miss work, and you're weak and in pain but you have to show the fuck up anyways to serve coffee to some elitist trash that thinks they're better than you because they're wearing a suit and you work for minimum wage and, "if you didn't want to be here, you'd just work harder". Think about how your health would be after foing this for 5 years, or 25 years, or 50 years. Imagine your family having horrible health concerns, and you couldn't go to them or be with them or help them, because you couldn't afford it. Imagine sustaining a severe injury that prevented you from working, and just like that all the money you saved got eaten up by rent and necessities and outrageous doctor bills no longer covered by employer-sponsored health insurance, and you were very quickly back out on the street, back at $0 (if not negative money; many people are desperate for food or to pay the bills or rack up medical debt or what-have-you and take out often predatory credit cards and are now in terrible debt).
  8. I want you to think beyond the "wow, be nicer to people because that was harder than I thought it would be!". I want you to gaze into the hungry faces you charaded amongst, and I want you to know that the day you broke was 30 years ago for these people, and it's never really gotten better for them.
  9. I want every fucking politician to be forced to live like this, for a year. Not in any way to prove that "oh look anyone can do it!", oh no. I want them to know, intimately, the struggle that their hungriest constituents live with every fucking moment. Just like I want every politician to need to be forced to use disability equipment for an entire month, exclusively, just so they can understand the accessibility issues that people with disabilities face.
  10. Fuck you for thinking poverty could be your little joke experiment to stick it to those who just can't pull themselves up by their bootstraps. I'm glad your health got hit, I hope you understand better now.

Sorry, I had a lot of angry feelings about that. My rant is over, sorry everyone, you can all go home now. Actually no fuck you I'm not sorry, it should be said and I'm glad I fucking said it.

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fairycosmos

the major loss of identity and sense of self you experience living with your parents as an adult is so incredibly mentally taxing

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"If a pig catches both a human influenza A virus and an avian influenza A virus at the same time, it can spark a process known as viral reassortment — a genetic exchange in which flu viruses swap gene segments." "Those swaps can introduce dramatic changes, producing a new virus with certain properties of a non-human strain coupled with the capacity to infect and spread between people." "The death rate in humans may be upwards of 50 per cent, World Health Organization data suggests, though it's possible that milder infections are getting missed, skewing the case fatality ratio. Still, in a population that's never been exposed, the global impacts could be dire." "More human cases could also be happening under the radar among farm workers who've moved to the U.S. from abroad, don't speak English as their first language, and may be hesitant to seek medical help, he added." "So I think there's probably underreporting on both sides," Armstrong said." "If [H5N1] gets into a population where there's constantly animals going in and out … it might not ever leave."

I've been watching this develop for the past several days, and apart from being terrified most people will not take this seriously (I've seen a handful of people already shout conspiracy on social media and it's alarming to see, as always). What I wanted to point out is that pandemics are going to continue to be our 'normal.' I watched a great video on YouTube a while ago (I believe it was by Vice?) that touched base on how this is going to become our new reality because of multiple factors (such as our proximity to animals, and environments/etc). It was when Covid hit and they did a piece debunking some of the misinformation floating on the internet. If I can find it I will post it here because it was informative and relevant to pretty much any world crisis we will see around any virus that spreads among a human population.

This post isn't trying to fear monger anyone, I just hope more people are aware of what is happening because this is important to talk about. There are already cases (of cows getting this bird flu) in the US, and I won't be surprised if there will be instances in more countries around the world. As usual, keep washing your hands/keeping good hygiene practices, masking up (and if you aren't I hope you consider it), and taking precautions if you do happen to visit/work or go near a pig or poultry farm too:

I'll keep track of this here of course, but please stay informed folks. And also FU to any governments who will try to minimize this or try to diminish the severity until it's too late and community spread happens like Covid because their actions are influenced by capitalistic interests.

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