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Hi.. :)

@topheavytaylor / topheavytaylor.tumblr.com

I'm awkward, nice to meet you.
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existentialwhale

Active ways to cultivate positive body image:

(Because oh my god, it’s so hard, and everyone’s all like stop feeling so bad about yourself and it’s like how???) 

  • Be naked. A lot. Sleep naked. Have sex naked. Eat cereal naked. (Or naked and wrapped in a sheet. Favorite thing.) 
  • Follow beautiful, confident, (un-photoshopped) body-positive babes on the Internet. Unfollow anything that makes you feel insecure. Exposure is key. You’re not going to get it if you don’t seek it out, because the media sucks and wants us to feel like shit about ourselves so they can take our money. (Some hashtags to follow: #effyourbeautystandards #bootyrevolution #blackisbeautiful #transisbeautiful #wheelchairlife #fatkini #fatshion)
  • Lingerie. Next best thing to being naked. 
  • Self care, babe. Different for everyone. (Me? Showers, books, shaving my legs, nature walks, dark lipstick, good playlists, clean rooms, candles, sexy time.) 
  • Get ready in your underwear. Boobs = happiness. 
  • Self portraits. Be pro-selfie. Take a million selfies. Take sexy selfies. Take no makeup selfies. Take bad angle silly selfies. Take artsy tripod selfies. Take everything-is-on-point selfies. You’re gorgeous; document your gorgeousness. You don’t even need to post them. 
  • Stop with the self deprecationnnnn. Pleeeeaseeee. It’s hard to control your thoughts love, I know, but you can control what you say. NEVER insult yourself out loud. Dare I say compliment yourself out loud? (And if you can, do your best to try to body-positive-ify your thoughts too.) 
  • Sex (including solo sexy time), wine, and chocolate. In that order. 
  • Share the body love. Compliment your girlfriends. Cultivate a nonjudgemental, supportive, lift-each-other-up “we’re so cute” friend group. Everyone’s insecure. Compliment your besties. And strangers, too. Be that person that makes everyone feel good about themselves when they’re around. 

Good luck gorgeous. It’s a battle. We gotta unlearn all this societal bullshit.

Reblogging cuz this is vital. Especially the point on self-deprecation. Stop that shit now. It is a glamour-don’t, a welcome sign for fuck ass ppl.

I needed this.

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snommelp

So, I’ve been pulled over a few times in my life. Not many, but a few. And I’ve also been in a couple of cars that got pulled over. And let me tell you, if you were actually doing something wrong, the officer doesn’t make any small talk, just straight into “I clocked you doing 70 in a 55.” The only time I’ve ever gotten the “do you know why I pulled you over?” was the time when I wasn’t doing anything wrong, and I got let go even though he insisted to the end that I was doing 87 in a 70 (white privilege at work).

“Do you know why I pulled you over?” is a trap. It means there’s a good chance the officer doesn’t actually have a good reason to ticket you, and is trying to get you to waive your 5th Amendment rights and incriminate yourself. If you make a guess, that’s a confession of guilt.

But there’s another trap, that I’ve heard of but haven’t yet experienced. It’s “do you know how fast you were going?” With that one, they’re hoping you’ll say no, because then they can name whatever speed they want – you just said you didn’t know how fast you were going, if you deny the speed they name then you’re lying to them.

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Oh, I’ve had that one. Go with “yes.” Don’t give them a number, just say “Yes.” Then they still have to offer a number and you can deny it without contradicting yourself. They could just ask you, at that point, but that’s suspiciously similar to saying they don’t know, and they tend to avoid doing that.

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August Swap

Hey everyone! So the theme this month is going to be borders. You can get as creative as you want with this. If you want to keep it simple go ahead and do a regular bordered chevron or candystrip. If you feel like mixing it up, go ahead and find a patter that includes borders. If you really want to get funky and make a border out of something else like a chain, go ahead. Let your imagination fly!

Also… our inbox is always open if you want to submit pictures of what you gotten or sent out! If you can’t get that to work, feel free to let us know that you have a picture on your own blog and we’ll reblog it from you.

Here are some border tutorials in case you don’t know how to do it:

video | pattern | text

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donidarkowitz

If this was any other candidate this would be on every news outlet. It would be a scandal, and that person wouldn’t be candidate for long. The fact that he’s still the presumptive nominee is fucking RIDICULOUS.

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uglyassprettyboy

yo…..

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Guess who got her bracelet swap in the mail today!? That's right! It was me! Still so stoked to be apart of this group. If you've thought about it, but weren't sure you had the skill level, or didn't know how it goes, etc, you should totally go for it! Ran by two awesome people @campunderground and @scoutfinches , I have been welcomed from the beginning. They also take everyone's suggestions into consideration, which is super cool. Come join us and gain a penpal, and get a super awesome bracelet every month!

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Hey everybody! So @scoutfinches and @campunderground have been hosting a monthly penpal style bracelet swap for almost a year and a half now!

Everyone is given a partner and each month we give you a new theme to inspire your bracelet tying. What’s awesome is we have become an international program!

We are always always always accepting new people but we are especially looking for canadians or anyone outside of canada willing to send mail out of the country!

How to Apply:

  1. Check out our about page
  2. Read our rules. Seriously, this one is important.
  3. Like what you see? Want to make new internet friends? Send us a message in our ask box

That’s about it. We’re super friendly and always looking to add more people to our family!

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