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Don't Rub It In

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ryan~~~he/him
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to all my trans mlm. do not let anyone make you think you deserve to be misgendered because of the way you present. No one has a right to write off misgendering you because of nail polish, dresses, heels, makeup, high voices, thick thighs, big hips, visible breasts (I don’t care if they’re F cups), or anything else “assumed feminine”. You do not deserve the violence of being misgended. You did nothing to deserve it. You have done nothing wrong by presenting in a way that makes you feel fucking incredible. Be unapologetic, because they are wrong. Not you.

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important: mental illness is always harder for the person experiencing it than it is for the people around them.

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enjolradz

friendly reminder that if we’re mutuals and you wanna exchange snapchat names or instagram or something you’re more than welcome (encouraged) to shoot me an ask

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zooophagous

Reminder: Bernie Sanders isn’t running for president and literally cannot win. Don’t bother writing his name in. It’s literally a wasted vote. The same as voting for your dog or for Mickey Mouse.

Also: don’t photograph your ballot. Many states have laws against this and will void your ballot if you post it online.

Also: you have the right to a secret ballot. If a “poll watcher” legit or fake demands to know who you’re voting for you do not have to tell them and they are violating federal law.

Also: You can’t vote online. There are absentee and early voting methods that require a mailed in ballot (use 2 stamps) but otherwise you do have to actually show up.

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fun tip for cis people: instead of saying “back when she was a he” or “back before [birthname] became [preferred name]”, try not being a pile of shit by saying something like “before she came out” or “before she began her transition”!

Pls friends and thanks.

“before she came out” is so easy and preserves so much dignity, PLEASE

I’ve been wondering the best way to say this. Thank you. 

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pumpkinskull

also if their transition is irrelevant to the story, don’t bring it up! just say “when X was a kid/ younger/ in college/ etc” and carry on using their current name and pronouns.

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meeresbande

That last point is very important! DO NOT OUT ANYONE! Do not bring up their trans status or transition unnecessarily! And you trying to look more interesting/cool/whatever by having a trans friend does not count as “neccessary”!!

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shout out to the girls that hate their bodies but are trying really really hard to find the beauty and comfort in them because that shit is hard and takes a lot of time and is emotionally exhausting. i’m proud of y'all.

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Friendly reminder if you aren’t mexican you have no right to wear a catrina dress for Halloween (or sugar skull makeup). You’re making a mockery and a costume of a whole nation’s culture, traditions and holidays. Idc if you have excuses like “it’s just a costume for halloween”. Sugar skull makeup isn’t just for the fun of it, and it isn’t without meaning.

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