Spock and Kirk in hot dog costumes, please
perhaps the best costumes i've done this year
I really cannot emphasize enough the mental health benefits of abandoning the idea that you're special.
This goes both ways, both "You don't have to do everything singlehanded" and "You're not uniquely awful."
I saw a short guy with the largest thighs i've ever seen on a man and i audibly said jesus fuck without realizing it and he turned around but didn't see me and my dick almost flew right off
The coworker next to me was like "what is it with gay men and thighs? i don't get it" and like you absolutely do not understand janice mind your own fucking business im eating with my eyes
Alright bible stans i need your help on this one
Frank Herbert, Dune (1965)
theres a pink blue and white flower at rhe grocery store i have to make. a joke
call that a transplant
Tips on how to curate a good fandom experience?
- get some gross sicko pals to be a gross sicko with. having at least one or two who you can be a hater with too is a must. helps you save face from airing your grieviances in public. and honestly nothing more satisfying that sending some stupid shit into the group chat being like “lmao u seeing this???”.
- stay away from anybody who acts like fandom is serious business/activism
- never feel like you need to justify your likes/dislikes to some dumb cunt on the internet
- something making you uncomfortable isn’t the end of the world & often it’s actually quite good to examine your own discomfort/disgust and what it stems from. builds character.
- block/mute/unfollow at the drop of a hat
- make sure to cultivate your interests outside of fandom and read things other than fic, this one, i’d say, is ESSENTIAL