TWD fails, again (spoilers for character death)
The producers of The Walking Dead always state proudly that no one is safe. Maybe so. But if you are a gay character in a relationship, you are more than unsafe -- you are doomed, because there is basically a target on your back, or on your partner’s.
Let’s recap the most visible gay relationships in TWD. As a new character, Tara had a brief, zero-heat relationship that ended with her girlfriend being shot in the head. Later she had a sweet, awkward, talky relationship with Denise that lasted a few more episodes before Denise was killed off. (I also felt that the two characters had zero sexual chemistry, but that’s subjective, so it’s possible I’m in the minority.)
More recently, there was the relationship between Aaron and Eric, who were an established couple when they were introduced on the show. The show made it clear that they were deeply in love, then the couple had Daryl over for spaghetti, then Eric effectively disappeared for a long stretch, only to re-appear a few episodes ago to remind viewers that he existed before they killed him off.
I imagine some people could say that this is simply holding the gay characters to the same standard as the straight ones -- life is cheap, and characters die, including ones who are part of a couple. After all, Maggie just lost Glenn. But when a show has shortchanged characters in a specific demographic as consistently as TWD has, it needs to make a conscious effort to break this pattern, and that means having a gay relationship on the show that is consistently visible and realistically portrayed.
Vanity Fair disagrees -- they think Eric’s death was respectful and poignant, and they point out that compared to earlier seasons where there were no gay characters, right now there are three. To VF, the fact that these three aren’t in relationships doesn’t mean as much considering that right now there is only one relationship in the show -- Rick and Michonne. I say that it’s easy to give a character a moving death scene -- it’s an easy way of showing you respect gay relationships without actually having to write one on an ongoing basis. On a personal note: I will be updating this Tumblr infrequently for a while -- my significant other has cancer and I’ve been focusing on this and making sure our kids are OK while we deal with it. I debated whether to provide this information because I’m not big on personal drama, but I have been trying to be matter-of-fact about this in all areas of my life, including online.