i love women. in the feminist way and in the gay way. happy international women’s day

i wanna be the reason you smile and laugh but also why you cum.

sometimes I see y'all going through my blog and I'm tempted to DM you "come here often?" but I don't wanna be creepy lol

reblog this to let a dyke know it's okay to DM you

can i say, i see all these “butches spit on me, dominate me, beat me up” posts going around and like yeah no absolutely, but really quickly...

butches who are so soft. butches with trauma, who wouldn’t hurt a fly. vanilla butches, virgins, ace/aro, disabled butches. those who are just… not really into the hard stuff, who just want slow and steady, who need gentleness and support. butches who are shy, who are inexperienced, who are awkward and submissive and sweet. butches who need extra encouragement and attention paid to their needs. stone butches, who aim to please, but don’t feel ‘dominant’, and worry that makes them less or inferior.

you’re very loved and appreciated here. <333

i’ve been seeing a lot of rougher sex and kink related things on my dash lately and while i’m all for that and definitely enjoy it, i wanna see tenderness!!! i wanna see vulnerability from both people!! ugh just like when you’re having sex and maybe someone says something funny and you laugh for a second or maybe you just take a little extra time kissing them and holding them close as if they may run or maybe it’s just plain ol regular degular lesbian sex and it’s still so amazing because it’s thoughtful and meaningful and loving. i always like it when my girlfriend takes her time to make love to me, as frustrating as it can be. she is just the sweetest and most wonderful person i’ve ever met and she always takes the time to make sure i’m comfortable and lets me know how attracted she is to me and it’s such a lovely experience. idk just shoutout to soft sex, you have such a special place in my heart <33

i wish there was more non-sexual/sfw femme4butch content on tumblr. like, don't get me wrong, y'all are attractive as hell... but i don't just want to have sex with a butch?? i want to hold her hand while swinging our arms and eating ice cream on a sunny day... i want to slow dance with him in the kitchen while our brownies are baking and snow gathers on the window sill... i want to chase them on the beach crashing through the waves in each other's arms and laughing so hard it hurts... and i want all of those moments to be the basis of intimacy - not what we do to express that intimacy in bed.

Yeah sex is nice and all but you know what’s better?

Getting to know what makes a person themselves. Learning what makes them happy. Figuring out what they cherish and helping them preserve their happiness.

Watching them enjoy their hobbies. Seeing their eyes light up when they talk about what they’re passionate. Hearing their true, unashamed laugh. Telling them to keep talking about what they love, they’re not being annoying, keep going.

Like the physical aspect of a relationship is fun and all but it’s almost nothing when you don’t know the person you’re with.

I want to take her out, spend the day doing all of her favourite things, eating all of her favourite food and I wanna buy her cute little gifts to make her smile. I want to see her fully relaxed and comfortable in her natural environment, I want to see how her eyes light up when her favourite song comes one, I want to hear her laugh at the smallest things. I want to hold her in my arms as we have a picnic in the park and watch the sunset, I want to dance under the stars with her, holding her close, kissing her so gently.

I want our night to end with us tumbling into bed, kissing each other so hard we’re getting dizzy from the lack of air, hands grabbing at our clothes, desperate to just feel each other. I want slow, soft sex, taking my time to find all of those spots that make her moan, whispering sweet affirming words to her as I go, reminding her how beautiful she is

Be as intrusive as you want, I'll answer 110% honestly.

Someone who wants all sides of me... The nerd, the random thoughts, the sexual freak, the quiet, the lover, the loner

lesbian visibility week yet no women are visible in my bed ????

The person I reblogged this from deserves happiness and love

Living the life he deserves