Connections
I can’t sleep. It’s frustrating not knowing if I did something wrong or what. You might as well be a stranger that I can’t ask anyway so I can save some face in case I did royally fuck up or something. Whatever.
I don’t like going out to clubs. I hated clubs and dancing in the States. I have to do it here if I want to go out. My cab ride was $23 last Saturday because I didn’t crash at that place. Disgusting.
I’m gonna get a tapered undercut on Saturday I think. Inha is supposed to come along. I think her life-maturity levels are severely underdeveloped because I had to explain to her what a real friendship and connection constitute and why I crave it out here. I’m really struggling in Korea because I meet random people, can have a conversation and try to be interested, but unless they give me more -- something personal or show some vulnerability eventually, I’m uninterested and then both of us are uninterested.
The few I’ve felt comfortable with have all washed out and it’s a bummer. It makes me want to go home because I feel damn lonely out here and I can’t describe it well enough.
My choices on Saturdays are to stay in and know everyone else is out having fun or to go out with the Canadian dude who just wants to go to clubs to pick up gals (I’m a big hit when I’m drunk apparently, and a swell dancer with no fear). I just want friends to shoot the shit with and watch TV with a beer.
I miss quietly relaxing and not worrying about what everyone else is doing. How do I stop worrying about what everyone else is doing again? I’m 26 for goodness sake.
For now I sleep on my living room couch because I’m tired of waking up in cold sweats 3x a night due to stress, heat, and various bouts of insomnia.
Home sounds real good about now, but would things be much different there?