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Bi Love Stuff

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Bisexual Pride & Awareness
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Are you bisexual? A lady? A pirate?

or any combination of the above?

There is a new blog looking for your contributions. Art, fiction, biographies… let us look at it.

Aces on the bi-romantic spectrum are welcome, as are all people on the female identified or non-binary spectrums. Bi’s of Colour especially encouraged.

(White cis bi guys are welcome to submit too, but this mod at least is actively wanting to promote the work  of and offer voices to people who might otherwise be silenced)

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Hi there so-called progressive people claiming Lady Gaga is a straight ally who never came out as bi, here’s your mother fucking citation.

seriously, lady gaga is a great gauge for where i stand with monosexuals because like, criticize her into the fucking ground for her behaviour. please.

but if you look me in the fucking eye and justify erasing her id because of that behaviour, you just told me that the validity of my existence depends on what you think of me as a person

like how does that even leave your awful mouth without you realizing how shitty you are

Exactly, Perez Hilton and Cathy Brennan are rancid pieces of shit, but everybody remembers to not invalidate their sexualities when calling them out on being toxic motherfuckers, and when the criticism veers close to homophobia its stamped down pretty quickly.

Whenever Gaga says or does something shitty however, suddenly “she’s not really bisexual”, she’s “appropriating gay culture”, she’s “a slutty druggy attention seeker” among all kinds of biphobic misogynistic things, and everybody has collective amnesia that she has said over and over again that she’s bisexual and therefore a member of the lgbt community.

Shitty bisexuals exist, they are not no longer bisexual because they do problematic things, the existance of problematic bisexuals does not give anyone the right to spew biphobia and misogynistic fuckery. That’s not calling celebs out, that’s finding a handy excuse to vent bigotry and I don’t trust anybody who doesn’t see it for what it is.

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Psst maybe the reason bi women end up with more straight men than with lesbians is because cishet men fetishize us and lesbian women vilify us.

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BiRequest is a social group for bisexual and bi-friendly people in New York City (NYC). Meetings are on the 1st & 3rd Thursday of each month at the LGBT Community Center (address 208 W 13th St, NYC).

From the Bisexual NYC meetup page description of BiRequest:

"All Bisexual, Pansexual, other Queer-identified and Bi-friendly people are invited to come join people from the greater NYC Area in a lively topic oriented discussion at  BiRequest’s famously open, non-judgmental, safe space. If you can’t make it to the meeting, feel free to join everyone afterward around  "eight-fifteenish" for dinner.

about us: Thanks to the dedication and hard work of many good bisexual folk, BiRequest is a bisexual social discussion group serving the New York City metropolitan area since January 1994. We provide a safe space for bisexuals and bi-friendly people to gather and discuss issues of importance to us.

All Bisexual, Pansexual, other Queer-identified and Bi-friendly people are invited to come join people from the greater NYC Area in a lively topic oriented discussion at  BiRequest’s famously open, non-judgmental, safe space. If you can’t make it to the meeting, feel free to join everyone afterward around  "eight-fifteenish" for dinner.

about us: Thanks to the dedication and hard work of many good bisexual folk, BiRequest is a bisexual social discussion group serving the New York City metropolitan area since January 1994. We provide a safe space for bisexuals and bi-friendly people to gather and discuss issues of importance to us.

We’re a co-ed group for adults from 18 to 80-plus who meet twice a month every 1st and 3rd Thursday evening at NYC’s LGBT Center in the West Village. The meetings are moderated and focused on a discussion topic but not limited to that week’s topic.

After the discussion group session, at 8 o’clock we go to dinner at a nearby, reasonably-priced restaurant for socializing and more informal discussion. We also have occasional social events such as movie nights, parties, and much more. Join us for a meeting or event and find the community you’ve been looking for!”

-Upcoming Meetings-

First Thursdays in 2014:

Third Thursdays in 2014:

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"bisexuals have straight passing privilege" did you mean bi erasure ? having people constantly assume im straight or gay based on who im dating or how I dress isn’t a privilege. it’s degrading and ignorant.

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Big Bi Pride Flag the Bisexual Alliance Victoria at Pride March Victoria 2014 in Melbourne AU The Bisexual Alliance Victoria is a community of bisexuals and their friends. It is a non-profit volunteer-run organisation dedicated to promoting the acceptance of bisexuals in GLBTI and mainstream society, providing a fun, safe space where bisexuals can meet, make friends, and talk about their experiences, and informing the bisexual community about relevant news and opportunities for activism.

Source: facebook.com
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fakeshamu

Ok so Y’all have seen those posts that are like “Why I love being a lesbian,” and then lists all the reasons why girls are great and dating girls is great. Why does it have to be titled as reasons to love being a lesbian specifically. Many girls who like girls don’t fall into that category. And...

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Anonymous asked:

One of the best ways I've seen it described: Bisexuality: attraction to any two genders; Polysexuality: attraction to any three, or more, genders; Pansexuality: attraction to all genders. Best part about this set of definitions is it doesn't try to force binarism into bisexuality, nor try to declare trans women and trans men inherently not binary women/men. Plus bisexuality is two genders; it doesn't have to be either binary gender, or even your own.

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bilovestuff

This weird description is so F'd up it actually confuses me that anybody could start to understand it and agree with it at the same time. 

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"bi people can’t really speak for gay rights, cuz they’re part straight and can comfortably pretend to be when someone wants to hurt them for it"

please fly into the sun

now

Monosexuals always speaking on behalf of bisexuals for some reason tho mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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katinguele

Shut the fuck up about bissexuality already

maybe when people start to acknowledge bisexuality as a legitimate sexuality and not just a “phase” or a “coverup” we’ll shut up about it

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