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hi i'm star!
she/her pronouns
mostly kingdom hearts, avatar, adventure time, snk, and feminism
sometimes i make edits and write dumb things
member of kairi defense squad
previously avatarkairi
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gothicprep

atheism obvs. isn’t a bad thing in itself but there’s a specific flavor of white male atheism that I can’t stand (the type that includes calling people’s religion “fairy tales” and being exceptionally aggressive towards Islam)

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TW for suicide

Dan Savage has extremely strong words for the parents and therapists of Leelah Alcorn, the trans teen who died by suicide after leaving a note on Tumblr.

"The suicide of Leelah Alcorn this week actually made headlines – something, sadly, that the mainstream news media too frequently ignores. Alcorn is the transgender teen who committed suicide by walking in front of a truck early Sunday morning. On her Tumblr page, she had scheduled a suicide note to post, which it did when she was no longer alive to unschedule – or postpone – it.

Alcorn also scheduled an apology post, which was published sometime after her suicide note. It was an apology to some, but not to her parents, who apparently had caused her great misery. 

"Mom and Dad: Fuck you. You can’t just control other people like that. That’s messed up," were her final words to her parents in the apology note.

Dan Savage on Twitter went on a bit of a rant, posting tweets saying Leelah’s parents should be prosecuted for her death.”

Read the full piece here

RIP LEELAH ALCORN

Trans Lifeline opened up in November to provide a resource for transgender people with suicidal thoughts. In the US, the organization can be reached by phone at 877-565-8860. 

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anti-sjw troll: breathing is cultural appropriation uwu
anti-sjw: GODD FUCKENING DAMNET SJWS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JESUS H. CHRIST I AM SPURTING AND PISSING WITH RAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRGH
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I can stomach bro-type boys who actually are quite sweet and loveable beneath their bro exterior significantly more than like, guys who study philosophy and write “poetry” but beneath it all actually have the skewed moral compass and heedless self absorption of your common or garden bro.

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I. You can tell me You love me In the sunrise And by midday I will think I’m completely Alone. Your love is enough But I feel like I’m not enough for your love. II. I will wake you up At 2 am When I’m stone-cold-sober To say sorry For everything. You won’t know what I’m talking about. Neither will I. Say it’s okay. III. Some days I will tell you I need you to hold me. Tell me I am strong on my own But you’ll be there Just the same. IV. I am and will be Jealous of Everyone and everything That goes on When you’re not with me. Remind me That you care but Never let me make you Feel guilty for not letting Your world revolve Around me. V. When I call you crying One too many times I don’t need advice, Just to know That my tears are not Falling unheard. VI. I will accuse you Of being sick of me, Of being tired of me A lot. And you will spend These conversations Feeling like a broken record. Don’t get bored of me. I’m just scared That you’ll see me The way I see myself. VII. I will never be angry But I’ll get passive-aggressive. If I tell you It doesn’t matter Tell me It matters To you. VIII. I’m not as broken As I often like to think I am. Don’t try to fix me. I still need to learn. IX. I’m afraid of being rejected But don’t stay If you don’t want to. I’d rather be alone Than with someone There out of pity. X. Be patient And let me Grow into your arms.

M.S. An open letter to anyone who loves me (via coffee-crinkled-pages)

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People who say suicide is selfish only think in terms of that person not being here anymore to benefit the people around them but they totally disregard all the suffering that person was going through ALONE

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#suicide TW

I’m sure many of you have heard the heartbreaking news this morning about transgender teen Leelah Alcorn’s (this links to her tumblr which contains her suicide note and other potentially triggering content) suicide after years of dealing with her bigoted and abusive Christian parents. After coming out to her mom, Leelah was forced into “therapy” with extremely harmful Christian therapists who did nothing but tell her she was selfish and to turn to god. Her parents removed her from public school and took away all her electronics so she could not even turn to social media for help. In the end, she felt like she had nothing to look forward to in her future.

Leelah, I’m so sorry the world wasn’t ready for you. I’m so sorry we live in a world where this is allowed to happen. I wish there was some way I could have helped you. I wish your parents could have seen the harm they were doing. You were a bright, shining star of a human being and it crushes my soul to learn of you like this.

Followers, I know probably more than half of you are cis. You follow for the funny words and pictures, but this is the reality of trans people’s existence in the world. We are not safe. Our families abuse us, people constantly seek to do us harm and tell us we are abominations, and many times, trans people feel like there are no other options than suicide. 

If our society were more compassionate, more understanding, more kind, this would not be the case. Cis people can help trans people. Call out transphobia from your friends and family. Denounce transphobia at your church. Stop tolerating transphobic jokes and remarks in the media. Stop letting it slide when people misgender trans people. Speak up. 

I’ll end this post with a quote from Leelah. Remember her words.

The only way I will rest in peace is if one day transgender people aren’t treated the way I was, they’re treated like humans, with valid feelings and human rights. Gender needs to be taught about in schools, the earlier the better. My death needs to mean something. My death needs to be counted in the number of transgender people who commit suicide this year. I want someone to look at that number and say “that’s fucked up” and fix it. Fix society. Please.
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