here's a reminder that you don't have to come out
you can come out to your parents and not your grandparents, like you can come out to your friends and not your parents and so on
coming out is not something you are forced to do, and some people are simply not worth the time to come out and explain it all
if they would react badly, please do not tell them
i know it's hard, but you do have the option of staying in the closet until it's safe. you can go live elsewhere, away from your family, and change your life for the better on your own
stay safe💛