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@thegladelf / thegladelf.tumblr.com

Margaret. Writer. Rabid reader. Christ follower. And crazy to boot. You're probably here because of the obsessive fangirling. Or the fanfic. Or both. Both is good. *************************************** "We're all stories in the end."
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Lol. My friend was talking about how they don't like a lot of people and "must be the autism" and I just shook my head and was like, "Bro, I'm pretty you'd be like that with or without the autism."

He had to agree.

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So here's a question for medical Twitter: I talk about my dad's health quite often bc it affects my life regularly. He is on Medicare. Currently, he is his own Medicare agent, but he's going to be transferring everything to me by the end of the year, so I will be in charge of helping him and his clients. Suddenly, I'm over here wondering if normal convos I have w people about what's going on w my dad would constitute a HIPAA violation once I'm the one in charge of his plan. (Never in detail, but I talk about them on Twitter, YouTube, etc.)

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I just watched Avatar for the first time all the way through, and yeah, it’s great, but the one thing that surprised me was how different Katara was compared to the fandom interpretation I’d seen and internalized before watching.

Like, before you watch Avatar, you’ve seen all these memes about Katara and her mom, and based on those memes, you assume it’s one of those lines you have to get used to hearing at least once every episode. But then you watch the show and realize that she only talks about her mom maybe five or six times per season and you also realize she only brings her up when she’s trying to comfort someone or empathize with them because that’s how she processes her grief and that’s one way she connects with people.

Or you hear the infamous line, “then you didn’t love [our mother] the way I did” and you prepare yourself for one of the worst character assassinations ever only to see the scene after nearly three seasons worth of context and realize she was kinda right. She’s been the mother, the nurturer, the comforter. She’s been patient, gentle, and accommodating where everyone else has gotten to be insensible and reckless and childish, and the one moment where she allows herself to feel her grief, suddenly she’s this evil bitch and not, y’know, a 14 year old girl whose been thrusted into adulthood in a way no other character has. A 14 year old girl who should be allowed immaturity and raw emotion and anger instead of the patience and grace she’s been forced to extend to every character without even the smallest amount of gratitude or even consideration in return.

Or you see all of the clips where Katara puts Aang in the “friendzone” and you expect to have this wishy washy back and forth where Aang is putting his feelings out there only to have Katara neither commit nor express any clear reciprocation or rejection. Then you watch and realize that, as cute as the ship is initially, that there’s never a point where Aang returns any comfort or grace to Katara despite her always doing this for him to the point of coddling. That for as much as Aang says he loves her, he never seems to outgrow his perception of her so he can recognize her as someone who feels grief, anger, and pain as much as she expresses love, kindness, and maturity. And instead of having moments where he learns to see her beyond her strength or compassion, you’re instead given moments where Aang forces his feelings onto her, both romantic and non-romantic, and Katara is expected to just…shoulder those feelings the way she shoulders everyone else’s.

Katara is the most misunderstood character in the show. As much as people recognize the complexities of Zuko, Sokka, and Azula, they struggle to do the same for Katara because they see her struggles as somehow lesser, and therefore, less deserving of sympathy. They can handle her so long as she’s being endlessly patient and loving and kind, but the moment her endless love, patience, and kindness runs out, she’s suddenly this annoying bitch who can’t shut up about her mother or reciprocate Aang’s feelings. But Katara’s trauma does matter as much as anyone else’s. No, she wasn’t banished from her kingdom. No, she didn’t lose her entire community, and no, she isn’t the only one who lost her mother. But the difference between her and everyone else whose experienced loss because of the Fire Nation is that she’s never given time to process her trauma. Aang gets to lean on Katara constantly. Toph gets to express her feelings to Katara, and yeah, Sokka also lost their mother, but unlike Katara, he isn’t put in the position of being a substitute for everyone’s parent. He even admits that he sees his sister as a mother. The only characters who ever comfort Katara or allow her to vent is Zuko and her father and that’s, like, three scenes in a show where the other characters are consistently given opportunities to seek out Katara for unconditional support.

The fandom interpretation of Katara has been so bastardized that even those who haven’t watched the show know her for this fanon version and not for who she is. She’s such an interesting character beyond her fandom limitations, though. She’s brave, hot-headed, and hopeful as well as gentle and caring. She wishes to learn waterbending, not only because she wants to fight in the war, but because she wants to continue her culture’s practices because, and people often forget this, she also lost an entire subculture within her already fractured tribe. And she wants to defeat the Fire Nation both because of her deep love and empathy for other people, but also because she wants to avenge her mother. But because some of the fans have reduced Katara to a bitch who constantly whines about her mother and friendzones Aang, you wouldn’t know any of this, and it sucks because she’s the only character whose been dumbed down to such an extent.

justice for katara frfr

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cyber-corp

Having your own personal blog is honestly quite a nice change of pace compared to Reddit. I could put a funny GIF of George Bush getting hit by a shoe on here and the worse case scenario is that no one even notices.

You put that on a big subreddit and you get your eyes gouged out and a heap of political discourse underneath your post.

YOU HEAR THAT EVERYONE??? I’M A LIL GECKO BOY

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The fact that people out there that watched Taylor date Matty Healy and still think she's secretly a lesbian

Y'all... that woman has her PICK of men to fake date. Do you honestly think anyone is picking that man without a giant helping hand from their hormones????

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“The average US president has been charged with 1.56 felonies” factoid isn’t true. The average US President has been charged with 0 felonies. Donald trump, who has been charged with 72, is a statistical outlier and should not have been counted

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jv

The fact that you made this mathematically accurate made my tummy warm

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oceanview15

Gordon: Thanks for your guy’s help. I hope I didn’t screw up your Valentine’s Day too much.

Selina: Oh, god no. Batman hates Valentine’s Day. And brunch. And outside. And smiling.

Selina (fondly): He’s weird.

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This is your reminder that a lot of public libraries actually have little summer reading programs for kids AND adults!

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knottahooker

We even have PRIZES for when you finish filling up your sheet with stickers! 

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books

Support your local library. There may even be a sticker for you at the end 🌟

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mirkwoodest

One of the ballsiest things Tolkien ever did was write 473k words about some hobbits called frodo, sam, merry, and pippin and then write in the appendices that their names are actually maura, ban, kali, and razal. 

This just in: Eowyn and Eomer’s names actually start with the letter “L.” [source for other nerds

No, they have Westron names and English names.

What you’ve got to understand is that everything Tolkien wrote was him pretending to merely translate ancient documents. He was writing as if the Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings were actually been written by Bilbo, Frodo, and Sam (or Bilba, Maura, and Ban) and he was just some random contemporary academic translating it all into English for us. 

There are many languages in his books, but generally speaking, everything written in English in the books is a translation of the language “Westron.” Therefore any names that come from Westron, he translated. Names coming from other languages, like Sindarin, he left as they were. Why? IDK. Maybe because the stories are from a hobbit perspective and hobbits speak Westron, so he wanted the Westron parts to sound familiar and the other languages/names to remain foreign? 

“But Mirkwoodest!” you cry, “The word ‘hobbit’ isn’t an English word! And the names Bilbo Baggins, Frodo Baggins, Samwise Gamgee, Peregrin Took, and Meriadoc Brandybuck” all sounds super weird and not like English at all!”

Psych! They are in English! (Or Old English, German, or Norse.) Once again you underestimate what a nerd Tolkien was. Let me break it down: 

In Westron, hobbits are actually called “kuduk,” which means “hole-dweller,” so for an English translation, Tolkien called them “hobbits” which is a modernization of the Old English word “holbytla” which comes from “Hol” (hole) and “Bytla”(builder)

“Maura” is a Westron name which means “Wise.” Weirdly enough, “Frodo” is an actual Proto-Germanic name that actual people used to have and it means the same thing. 

“Banazîr” is Westron for “half-wise, or simple.” In Proto Germanic, the prefix “Sam” means half, and wise is obviously a word we still use. 

“Razanur” means “Traveler” or “Stranger” which is also the meaning of the word “Peregrin(e)” This one is a twofer because  “Razar” means “a small red apple” and in English so does “Pippin.”

“Kalimac” apparently is a meaningless name in Westron, but the shortened form “Kali” means “happy,” so Jirt decided his nickname would be “Merry” and chose the really obscure ancient Celtic name “Meriodoc” to match. 

Jirt chose to leave “Bilba” almost exactly the same in English, but he changed the ending to an “O” because in Westron names ending in “a” are masculine. 

I’m not going to go on and talk about the last names but those all have special meanings too (except Tûk, which is too iconic to change more than the spelling of, apparently). 

The Rohirrim were also Westron speakers first and foremost, so their names are also “translations” into Old English and Proto-Germanic words, i.e. “Eowyn”  is a combination of “Eoh” (horse) and “Wynn” (joy/bliss)

“Rohirrim/Rohan” are Sindarin words, but in the books, they call themselves the “Éothéod” which is an Old English/Norse combo that means “horse people.” Tolkien tells us in the “Peoples of Middle Earth” that the actual Westron for “Éothéod” is Lohtûr, which means that Eowyn and Eomer’s names, which come from the same root word, must also start with the letter L. 

The names of all the elves, dwarves, Dunedain, and men from Gondor are not English translations, since they come from root words other than Westron. 

The takeaway from this is that when a guy whose first real job was researching the history and etymology of words of Germanic origin beginning with the letter “W” writes a book, you can expect this kind of tomfoolery.

Notes: Sorry I said “Razal” instead of “Razar” in my original post I’m a fraud. 

Further Reading: 

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aviculor

I’m having a stroke

Tolkien was the most extra son of a bitch my goodness

This is why C.S. Lewis wanted to punch Tolkien in the face sometimes. 

In the great hierarchy of nerds, Tolkien remains at the very top.

No one can top Tolkien.

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firefallnz

pretend? pretend to translate????

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zetsubonna

Fuckin Conlangs Georg

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when ur trying to reblog a post but it fails bc the op who uve never seen in ur entire life has u blocked

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fancyfade

[image: a screenshot of a TV show of a guy saying “my not-so-spotless reputation precedes me.” end image]

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toni morrison eloquently discussed this very thing in 2004!

Thinking of yourself as a smol bean baby is a way of tapping out and expecting other people to fight on your behalf. It also makes you a more pliant consumer. Social media is awash with the idea that ‘it’s valid not to be productive’, as though productivity were the only manifestation of capitalism and streaming Disney+ all day is a form of resistance. It’s much rarer to encounter the idea that we have a responsibility about what we consume, or that satisfying our own desires whenever we want is not always a good thing: it’s like “there is no ethical consumption under capitalism” has morphed into “there is no unethical consumption under capitalism”.
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kibumkim

Not to add to this post but this part spoke to me specifically

Meh. This article is too disjunct and all-over-the-place to make any kind of cohesive argument. It's just a loose pile of complaints about Young People These Days.

The writer manages to squeeze all these things into a single argument by failing to clearly define what they're complaining about. Stuffed animals are a symptom of it, because children like stuffed animals, but getting pissed off over something meaningless is also a symptom, because children throw tantrums, but talking about doing cocaine is also a symptom, because rebellious immature teenagers do cocaine—and the group of people that display these symptoms is none other than whatever people they'll apply to in a pinch, whether that's 51 year old "Disney adults" or 21 year old women who have an "uwu cute" aesthetic.

The final screenshot in the above reblog is especially what gets me, because it is clearly describing one of the simplest, most context-independent phenomena in human behavior: selfishness.

"Acting like you're always the victim in every situation" is called selfishness. We've had that for a while.

Furthermore, the article can only offer a vague, boneless idea of what "maturity" would even look like:

"Looking after ourselves" "treating other people with care" "being invested in something beyond our own immediate satisfaction"

This is just the most basic possible list of "good/positive things to do when being alive," and it's not really incompatible with most of the things being complained about.

Basically, that was a lot of words to say "People are selfish and immature sometimes." No shit.

The concept of "maturity" has also been almost completely consumed by a consumerist aesthetic for most of alive people's memory.

From lawns to diamonds, so many industries are about attaining membership in a social category of adulthood by Buying Product.

I think unfucking this is going to be a little harder than this writer is trying to sell

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12lifetimes

daisy said “love doesn’t have to be bombs and tears and blood” and logan echolls started talking in my head: “spanning years and continents. lives ruined, bloodshed. epic.”

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