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Learning as I go...

@beckyrc / beckyrc.tumblr.com

I started this blog as an attempt to be able to converse with my friends I met on Twitter. Plus twitter isn't long enough for my rants and thoughts. I am a PR person and I like to go on and on and on. I am sure this will contain thoughts on divorce, dating and of course my beautiful daughters. Oh and probably some rants on my lovely job.
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salon
Big rig crashes kill nearly 4,000 Americans each year and injure more than 85,000. Since 2009, fatalities involving large trucks have increased 17 percent. Injuries have gone up 28 percent.
Given these numbers, you might expect Congress to be agitating for tighter controls on big rigs. In fact, many members are pushing for the opposite – looser restrictions on the trucking industry and its drivers.
The proposals represent a wish list of the trucking industry, including allowing significantly longer and heavier trucks, and younger drivers. The industry spends heavily on lobbying and campaign contributions, giving largely to Republicans, who control both the House and Senate.
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All I can say is wow. This is an awful article, I like how they pick so called “Safety experts”. People whose family were killed by a truck? Really? How about talking to a real safety adovocate? Because every trucking company has one. They are the ones actually advocating safety. My blood pressure is through the roof now. First of all “loosening of restrictions” is a bunch of bs, most of the ones listed you can actually already do in most states. Some states you can go much higher than 91,000 lbs I think it is South Dakota you can go up to 200,000. The amount of people killed by trucks---most are caused by the car not the truck. Not only that I would be curious to see how many of those were suicides. Because in my 5 years in the industry...I have heard of 10 just in the state of Kansas. The lowering of the age of drivers...we can’t find drivers so unless you want your products not to get to your business or store then we have to do something. Hell, 14 year olds can drive a farm truck with just as much weight on it in some states. Oh I could go on and on but quit making trucks the bad guys. These guys and gals are some of the hardest working folks out there. They don’t get time with their families just so you can get whatever it is that you need. I would invite anyone to go on a ridealong with a driver just to see what they see. DOne.. I can’t read this anymore.

Source: salon.com
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The whole “I’m not like other girls” movement should really be called the “I don’t want men to treat me the way they treat other women” movement because that’s what it really is. Women know that a girl who wears makeup is as respectable as a girl who wears none. A girl who’s played every Final Fantasy game is as respectable as a girl who digs Candy Crush. A woman who started her own law firm is as respectable as a single mom who works in the service industry. A girl who enjoys casual sex is as respectable as a girl who has never had her first kiss. A lesbian who has no interest in men is as respectable as a straight girl who loves her boyfriend. A girl who reads People magazine is as respectable as a girl who reads Dostoyevsky.

Women have been extensively shamed for saying “I’m not like other girls” when what they are really saying, maybe without knowing it, is “I’ve heard the way men talk about specific types of women, typically women who do things that they don’t understand or relate to, and I really, really want them to separate me from that and see me as a person who is worthy of being respected.” How much respect a woman gets from men is very rarely indicative of how much she deserves.

“I don’t want you to treat me the way you treat other girls, because you treat other girls like shit.”

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President Obama reportedly may circumvent Congress and issue an executive order requiring expanded background checks for gun purchases from high-volume dealers. The Washington Post reports:

The proposed executive action aims to impose background checks on individuals who buy from dealers who sell a significant number of guns each year. The current federal statute dictates that those who are “engaged in the business” of dealing firearms need to obtain a federal license — and, therefore, conduct background checks — but exempts anyone “who makes occasional sales, exchanges, or purchases of firearms for the enhancement of a personal collection or for a hobby, or who sells all or part of his personal collection of firearms.” White House officials drafted the proposal in late 2013 to apply to those dealers who sell at least 50 guns annually, after Congress had rejected legislation that would have expanded background checks more broadly to private sellers.

The Tea Things will lose their minds.

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Made it through last night with the help of someone that didn't leave when I asked. He stayed with me and just let me cry. It was nice it was great that he didn't freak out when no matter how hard I tried I couldn't hold in the tears. On another note, I like this guy and we are trying to keep things at a slow pace. I really have high hopes for this relationship but what do I know I don't have a good track record with relationships. But he is amazing. I like him.

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So my kids just called. And were all excited about their dad getting married. Excuse me while I continue to drink and cry because I suck at relationships.

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My ex-husband is getting married Saturday. I actually don't really care other than it makes me feel like a big fat failure. His first or second relationship after the divorce and he is getting married. I don't have any clue what number I am on. Kind of thought David was the one but that was a big no. Thought Ryan and I would make a go again that was a big no from him. Yea, I may be dating someone but I still feel pretty shitty. So I think I am going to spend Saturday alone in my bed with a bottle of wine. And not look at my phone

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salon

1) Mike Huckabee. 

Huckabee is a notorious spewer of sexist garbage, but his latest –defending the Paraguay government forcing a 10-year-old rape victim to have her rapist’s baby—is low even for him. “When an abortion happens, there are two victims,” he argued. “One is the child, the other is that birth mother, who often will go through extraordinary guilt years later when she begins to think through what happened, with the baby, with her.”

2) Scott Walker. 

During the Fox News GOP debate, Walker affirmed his support for forcing pregnant women to give birth, even if their doctors tell them it will kill them. He doubled down later in an interview with Sean Hannity, saying, “I’ve said for years, medically there’s always a better choice than choosing between the life of an unborn baby and the life of the mother.”

3) Ben Carson. 

“It brings up a very important issue and that is do those black lives matter,” he told Fox News host Eric Bolling recently when discussing Planned Parenthood. “The number one cause of death for black people is abortion.”

4) Rick Santorum. 

“It is not any more than the Dred Scott decision was settled law to Abraham Lincoln,” Santorum said, during the Republican debate, about a recent court decision legalizing same-sex marriage. “This a rogue Supreme Court decision.”

5) Bobby Jindal. 

“Today’s video of a Planned Parenthood official discussing the systematic harvesting and trafficking of human body parts is shocking and gruesome,” Jindal said in announcing an investigation of Planned Parenthood inspired by videos that have been repeatedly shown to be anti-choice hoaxes.

6) Marco Rubio. 

Rubio’s argument on CNN for why women should not be allowed to remove unwanted embryos from their uteruses: “It cannot turn into an animal. It can’t turn into a donkey.”
“Well, if they can’t say it will be human life, what does it become, then?” he added. Could it become a cat?”
All surgery, as well as tooth removal and hair brushing, removes living human cells, aka human life. It’s not donkey. It’s not cat. Human. We look forward to Rubio’s upcoming ban on dentistry on the grounds that human life is not cat life.

7) Carly Fiorina. 

Fiorina considered denying her daughter the HPV vaccine, even though nearly all sexually active people will get it at some point in their life. “And she got bullied. She got bullied by a school nurse saying: ‘Do you know what your daughter is doing?‘” Fiorina complained at a campaign event.

8) Jeb Bush. 

Bush got a lot of negative attention for a campaign event where he said, “I’m not sure we need a half a billion dollars for women’s health issues.” His attempt to “clarify” this, however, showed that he really does mean it. He proposes taking the money away from family planning clinics like Planned Parenthood and redirecting it to general service community health centers. Which is to say, to take away money bookmarked for women’s health, forcing women to give up their gynecologists and go to general clinics instead, where they can expect longer wait times, less direct access to contraception and less access to specialized services.

9) Ted Cruz. 

When the hoax Planned Parenthood videos came out, Cruz floated a conspiracy theory accusing the media of censorship. “The mainstream media wants to do everything they can to hide these videos from the American people,” he argued. “And the reason is virtually every reporter, virtually every editor, virtually every person who makes decisions in the mainstream media is passionately pro-abortion.”

10) Donald Trump. 

Trump says a lot of foul things about women generally and reproductive health care generally, including calling Planned Parenthood an “abortion factory”. But he’s probably the candidate in the race who hates reproductive health care access the least, which is a sad statement about the state of the modern GOP.

11) Rand Paul. 

Paul has been pushing the idea of banning Medicaid patients from Planned Parenthood and redirecting them to already overcrowded general service clinics instead. “We’ve doubled the amount of money we put into women’s health care through government, and so it’s just an absurd argument to say we need Planned Parenthood,” he argued on Fox News last week. “It’s only about abortion.”

12) Chris Christie. 

Christie’s attempts to ingratiate himself with the religious right brought him to start defunding Planned Parenthood in New Jersey years ago. But his enthusiasm for preventing women from using contraception stops at his bedroom door. “I’m a Catholic, but I’ve used birth control, and not just the rhythm method,” Christie recently told a New Hampshire crowd.

Stil think both parties are the same?

Source: salon.com
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Sometimes things happen when you least expect them too. Also, when you aren’t really ready for them to happen. But hey, going with the flow. 

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Meeting up with two of my super conservative, ultra religious, don’t believe in divorce or Affordable care friends from high school tonight. Yay Me! 

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a girl walking alone

Tonight I decided to walk home, a further distance than I normally would. The bus wasn’t coming, the weather was nice, and I thought the exercise would feel good. I turned on my music, but kept my headphones down around my neck so that they wouldn’t impede my ability to hear what was going on around me. I stayed in fairly populated, well-lit areas. I kept my shoulders back and my chin up so that I looked confident. I put my keys in my fist so that they would be out and ready if I needed to slash or punch anyone with them. I looked around frequently to keep an eye on any changes in my surroundings. I slowed down and veered to avoid any alcoves or darkened areas where someone had the potential to be hiding. I looked out for anyone in my vicinity and made a quick judgment of how easily they could overpower me, how likely I was to outrun them. I listened hard for new footsteps. I made close note of escape routes.

I spent the entirety of my pleasant walk home assessing my risk of being raped, robbed, or murdered. It bugs me that I found this necessary. But the thing that bugs me the most is knowing that there will be people who read this who think, “she’s being crazy/melodramatic/paranoid,” and they are almost certainly the same people who, if something terrible HAD happened to me on my walk, would think, “well, what did she expect to happen” or “she should have been more careful” or “she deserved it.”

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