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I sent her a message two weeks ago and told her that I was pregnant and how happy I was building a family with the love of my life. When I met her yesterday she pulled me into a hug and said "oh my god you're not showing at all" and I couldn't help but burst into tears. She immediately knew that something was wrong but I tried to act like those were just happy tears. She then hugged me again and I couldn't help but tell her that my doctor told me that there's a high chance that I will miscarry

and she just hugged me even closer and then asked me If I know why and if there’s any chance that we can do something about this. I said that I feel absolutely lost and hopeless because I had a miscarriage before and Taylor just looked into my eyes and grabbed my hand and said that she will make sure that I get a second opinion from a doctor who’s an expert and that she’ll promise me to try everything to help us save our “little angel” (that’s what she called my baby a few times).  and then she hugged me again and said how important it is for me to stay positive and have happy thoughts. And then she asked me all about what it’s like to be pregnant and If I feel sick or weird and how my husband reacted and everything. I said that my husband has some trouble dealing with my mood swings and she literally said “well, I’m not pregnant and my man has to deal with that already” lol She just really made me laugh and cheered me up and MADE ME be positive. And today, I just got an email with the address of a doctor ( Of course, I won’t say any names) and some possible date’s that I get to choose. I was overwhelmed because she didn’t just keep her word but when I asked for financial infos about this specialist I learned that “everything is being taken care of”… I’m speechless and thankful and even though everything about this is so private, I felt the deep need to share this story. I cannot even start to say how thankful I am for Taylor and how considerate and kind she is. She knows me and my story and I will never be able to thank her enough for doing everything to help me save my “little angel”. She, herself, is an angel and it makes me happy to know that she has found her own happiness. I hope everyone reading this will think twice from now on before judging Taylor or anything she does. I will never forget that she has done this for me and I will forever be thankful. Thank you for sharing this, Shay!

oh……my………god…….this woman is literally AN ANGEL!!! first of all, i’m so sorry for what you’ve been through and i’m sure everything will turn out for the better, but also wow, THIS IS WHO TAYLOR SWIFT IS! This is literally the best fan interaction i have heard and i really hope people understand her personality more rather than judge her. i’m so happy that she managed to get you advice and help, hopefully everything will turn out positive! Thank you so much for sharing this, you are very brave!

also the “well, I’m not pregnant and my man has to deal with that already” hahahahaha this woman omg i love her so much

Taylor Swift is a really imperfect person and has a lot of learning and self-evaluating to do (like many of us) and I feel that her die-hard fans, such as yourself, try soo hard to erase that and make her seem like she can do no wrong. Being one of her "yes" men won't do her any good, it keeps her oblivious and thinking she is holier than thou and fuels her victim complex, when that's not the case

ok but i don’t see any fans saying that she’s a perfect person who has no learning or self-evaluating to do. fans have been here all along saying we hope her feminism improves (and we were all so happy to see that she acknowledged her privilege and said she wants to use it to help others less fortunate).

i really do not consider myself to be the type of fan who thinks that everything taylor has done is perfect and that criticism against her is NEVER warranted. i have very openly acknowledged when i’ve thought she could do better. but what you have to understand is that defending someone from a specific kind of criticism does not in ay way mean that we think she’s perfect. people are more nuanced than that, the WORLD is more nuanced than that. imperfect people still don’t deserve to have cruel things said about them that are untrue

here is a list of criticism that fans have been defending her over the past few days:

that is what fans (of all races, genders and sexual orientations, btw) are defending her from but if you’d like to clarify why any of this shouldn’t be defended please feel free to come back because i do appreciate that this message wasn’t too harsh