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Sometimes we just have to go to Death

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Age: 25 Discord: Solo Wing Pixy#1997 Profile picture by: tidalcurrent
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Fandom Problem #4381:

People really need to apply the idea of curating their own experience and "don't like, don't read" to more things, not just 'dark' stuff. If something isn't to your taste, then instead of throwing a tantrum about it and insist it's bad or needs to pander to you, just stop consuming the media.

It doesn't matter what type of media it is

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Fandom Problem #4364:

Literally every anti argument falls apart when actually approached from a rational angle

"This is illegal"

It's literally not. Artistic portrayals of things that are illegal are not themselves illegal. There would have to be an actual victim involved for it to be illegal. Fictional characters are not real.

"This could be used to groom kids"

You know how else kids get groomed? Being given attention and kindness when they aren't getting it anywhere else.

Abuse is the fault of the abuser, no one else, not any books or movies or fanfics they read, don't give them any excuses.

"You're making light of MY trauma"

Sorry, i don't think you're a cartoon character. This doesn't involve you in any way, shape, or form.

You're also assuming you know what sort of trauma the creator does and doesn't have.

"If you ARE doing it out of your own trauma that's an unhealthy coping mechanism, go to therapy"

If you actually went to therapy you'd know that any real therapist wouldn't condemn using fiction to explore dark topics, it's in fact a highly recommended way of confronting trauma.

"Why wouldn't you just write about wholesome positive things instead?"

Because forcing positivity instead of expressing darker emotions in the place that is meant to be safe to express them is just pushing down negative emotions and not confronting them, the thing that therapy tells you NOT to do.

They say art should disturb the comfortable and comfort the disturbed, afterall.

"This is triggering to me I don't want to see it"

You have tools to avoid this. Use them. DON'T actively seek out things you know upset you out of some misplaced sense of justice.

"It's still weird though."

You're allowed to think that, but "weird" isn't inherently immoral. You're on the internet, afterall, you'd better get used to the weird.

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Fandom Problem #4262:

ND people shouldn't be a special case. It's not "Oh you shouldn't harass people for playing a game because what if they're ND and can't restrain themselves from their interests", it's "You shouldn't harass people for playing a game". The player base could be 100% NT and it would still apply.

Again, instead of "Stop shitting on people, bc they could be ND !", just say "Stop shitting on people"

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i-will-write
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dduane

No matter how many people have ever written their take on an idea... no one will ever write yours the way you do.

And when you've spent enough hard work on your idea, it's entirely possible that your idea will be better than all the ones that came before.

We'll never know until you write it.

If you're scared that you'll spend a lot of effort on an idea and it won't be any better...?

Welcome! You're now suffering the same uncertainty that every writer ever born deals with, every day.

There's no guarantee that you'll win. But until you start, it's guaranteed that you never will.

Putt your butt in the chair, start working, and begin the daily challenge of taking the same gamble that all of the rest of us take, every day.

It's all any of us can do. :)

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Anonymous asked:

the only two ways i can categorize height is if i see something tall i go 'woah, big boy man' and if i see something short i go 'hah.. baby man' and idk what to blame for this. anyway wanna hear about the times ghosts have touched my ass

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adorablecake

The Original

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woost46

Wait, actually the original? This post is historic

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bitchfitch

I need to draw men being obnoxious to their partners and getting In The Way right now immediately.

it is it's nature to Be In The Way.

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ecurps

Just... Pick them up??? Grab a blanket, wrap 'em up, then move them out of the way.

the consequences of doing that:

just needed to make a conclusion to this

tbh this post is Just for the it/its crowd now. keep shining.

(but for real it makes me happy other it/its folks are getting a lil joy out of an it/its character like. casually existing and having a fun gender.)

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