Before we dive into this, anon I'm so sorry but I won't be answering your question. Instead, we're going to talk about why I wont be answering these kinds of questions. If you are engaging with me or any tarot reader for free readings, please read this! I don't speak for every reader but "no third party readings" is a common ground rule and I might address why some other readers don't do them too.
This is a perfect and super common example of a third party reading! The first party here I guess is me, the reader, and the second party is you, the querant. Asking about how a third party feels or what they're doing or how they're doing becomes a third party reading. Why don't I do these? Great question! Firstly professional ethics. Diving into someone elses thoughts for a paid, professional reading is violating this persons privacy without their consent or knowledge, and the way I answer most likely will have real life consequences for them in how you might treat them going forwards. Beyond that, "Fortune telling" is technically illegal, and therefore answering questions like this where I couldnt possibly know the answer naturally is kind of legally sketchy. Thats not the main reason though. Third party readings are disempowering.
What? Ok. Let's break this down a bit. You are asking "how does so and so feel about me?" because you desperately want to know, because you're anxious, because you NEED to know. So lets say I answered it. Let's say I answer they have feelings for you. You got the answer you wanted. Now what? You feel a little better for a second. But what do you DO? Same goes if I answer they don't like you at all. Ok. Heartbreaking. Now what?
What I like to do with tarot readings is get to the root of what you actually want, help you set an intention, and read for that intention. When people come to me with these kinds of questions I like to encourage them explore what they actually want to know. You just met this person, maybe you've been single for a while or just went through a breakup but either way you want to know when you'll find love again, when you'll feel that fulfilled, safe, loved that you did before. So its not about this specific person at all. Sure, maybe you really like them, maybe they have everything you want. But in the end its not about them, its about you wanting to feel loved. Its about YOU.
So we got there, what its really about. If we're doing a free reading, I'd encourage you to change your question to something like "how can I nurture the love I already have in my life?" or maybe "how can I bring more love into my life?" If its a bigger reading I might encourage you to look at a few different questions like "what is it about this person that attracts me, are those things truly what I value?" and then examine how you can bring more people with qualities you do value into your life and how to nurture your relationships into love. The important thing about these kinds of questions is that theyre empowering. They give you back the control. Its not about how some person feels about you anymore and if that will ever move forward, which beyond the step of asking them is completely up to them. It becomes about you, about figuring out whats important to you and giving you specific action steps to move forward. Hopefully leaving you feeling in control and hopeful that you can get exactly what you truly want instead of stuck on what to do with basically a yes or no answer
Tarot is just a tool. You can use it any way you want to. But different techniques, different experience levels, different styles, and different ability levels will get you different results. I honestly highly encourage you to learn how to read tarot, download an ap, and answer this question for yourself!
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